It's Not Fair - Tiffany's Letter

By Wanderer159 and Red Rover
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Copyright 2017 by Wanderer159 and Red Rover, all rights reserved

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From Tiffany, 12
 

How old should a girl be to be able to bathe herself? I am a 12-year-old girl and my parents don't let me bathe myself (and never did). I also have a younger brother (8 years old) who is being bathed with me. Either one of my parents bathe us and it's so embarrassing. They even bathe my/our upper part and lower parts. My brother teases me that he can see me naked and asks questions about my body which my parents freely answer. When I tease my brother that I could see him naked and ask questions about his body that my parents freely answers, he doesn't care! I keep telling my parents about how embarrassing this is for me now that I'm old enough to bathe myself but they laugh like I have said the funniest thing and say I am not old enough to be trusted in the tub, and neither is brother, for a long time. They even let my brother help bathe me including my boobies, my heiney hole and my flower. It's especially embarrassing how they comment that my boobies are now growing and each one of them gets to bathe them, even my dad, especially even my little brother. I once got into an argument with my parents about this and they took off my pants and panties, put me over their knees and spanked me. First my dad and then my mom.
 
Just see what happened recently, a few days ago: It was 9 PM and as usual, my mother has called us (my brother and me) to get undressed and go to the bathroom, for which my mom was already filling with water. I didn't obey. Then I hear my mom yell "TIFFANY, WHERE ARE YOU?! GET IN THE BATHROOM NOW!". I got scared (as I take Puericil-G and don't have a lot of will-power to resist) and went there. When I got there, my brother (Paul) was already naked and in the tub. My mom was furious. She said "Young lady, why aren't you obeying me? When I tell you to take off your clothes and come here for your bath, you need to do so immediately!". I try to tell her firmly that I can bathe myself but it comes out weakly. She calls our dad who has just come back from work and they scold me, very sternly. Then they come up to me and surround me, and undress me like I was a doll. They do so while explaining to me that I am not old enough and that I don't have a right to be in the tub alone. Then they put me over my dad's knee and both spank me for a few minutes. Even though they only spanked me for a few minutes, I was crying like a baby. I saw my brother grinning when he saw that while sitting in the tub. Then they put me in the tub and bathe me. They wash my hair first so I close my eyes so that the soap won't go inside them. My brother feels my body, including my boobies (they are barely there since they have begun growing fairly recently after I got my period). I can't see anything and I complain to my mom who is bathing me but she just says "Paul, don't touch your sister while I'm bathing her". That's it?! No nothing. He gets to touch me anywhere including my boobies and that's all he gets?! She then rinses my hair and then washes my upper body, including my boobies, my arms, my tummy, my legs. Then she has me sit down and spread my legs while she washes me "down there". They have even allowed Paul to help with that, telling him how to bathe a girl. I can bathe his peepee and balls too but it doesn't bother him like him bathing me down there. She finishes bathing me when I turn around and she washes the back of all my body and my heienehole and rinses my whole body. Then she washes Paul. Paul is too young to be embarrassed at this, but not me.
 
They said I will be bathed until I move out of their place to my own place. But that's not until I get a job which I need to be in the age of majority. For both boys and girls, the age of majority is 21 years old, here in this city. So since I have to be at least 21 years old AND have my own place, I can be still bathed after I turn 21. Some girls I've known are OLDER than 21 and they still get bathed by their parents because they live at home, can't move out and take Puericil-G. My parents tell me not to feel bad because of my young age, but I don't care; I just don't want people seeing me naked!
 
What's more is Paul takes pictures of me including close-up and whole pictures of my boobies, my heiney hole and my pussy being washed by my parents and hides them from me in his camera. Then he shows them to all his boy friends who don't have sisters to watch being bathed. They all tease me that they can see me naked in every part of my body and there's nothing I can do.
 
I'm 12 years old and I am just mortified my mom and my dad bathe me everywhere including my private parts and my boobies and Paul helps out. My body is changing as they have explained to Paul about adolescent and teenage girls' bodies becoming woman's bodies and they can see everything. My friends, my age, older and younger than me, including some girls in their late teens, also have their parents bathe them and they're mortified too. This shouldn't happen to girls.
 
IT'S NOT FAIR!
 
 
Dr. Baker responds:
 
Hello, Tiffany,
 
I would agree that a 12 year old girl should be mature enough to bathe herself, but your parents don’t seem to agree with you. But you are on Puericil-G which makes a big difference. Many people don’t realize that being on one of the Puericil-type medications tends to make the child less mature in many respects including personal cleanliness. This is true of boys as well as girls. One of my patient’s families includes a pair of twins. I’ll call them “Jack” and “Jill.” They are 17 years old and in the 10th grade. Their parents bathe them the same way your parents bathe you and your brother – in the tub together. Jack is on Puericil-Max and Jill is on Puericil-G. They are very immature for their age and are 2 years behind in their school grade level because of it. Looking at them, you’d think they were 14 or younger. Jack and Jill still have baby-sitters, some of whom are younger than they are. Their baby-sitters bathe them and spank their bare bottoms as needed.
 
As for your little brothers seeing you naked and learning about your body parts, that is really normal and healthy. Children need to be familiar with the opposite sex so they learn the proper names for things and don’t grow up confused about sexual matters. You say your parents let you touch Paul’s body and ask questions about it, just as they let Paul touch you and ask about your body. That seems fair to me.
 
You say that Paul enjoys watching you get spanked on your bare bottom. Do you get to watch him when he gets spanked? I usually recommend that children be spanked separately, but your parents are the ones to make that decision.
 
I am not sure I approve of Paul taking pictures of you naked. That could lead to trouble if the pictures get onto the Internet. Make sure your parents control who gets to see those pictures.
 
Let me know how you are doing and feel free to write if you have any more questions or problems.
 
Sincerely
 
Paul D. Baker, Ph.D.
Consulting Psychologist
 
 

 
 
  

   
   
   
 
 
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