It's Not Fair

It's Not Fair 36

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This story is set in the Puericil Universe.

See chapter 1 for an explanation about this series. This is another selection of letters from the "It’s Not Fair!" letter column, in "Boy Stuff" magazine. In them, boys complain about how little privacy they are allowed, and about the double standard that makes it OK for people to see them naked but protects girls’ modesty. The magazine response is signed as INF, but it's actually written by Dr. Cassandra Miller, a feminist psychologist specializing in the upbringing of boys. The intention of this article is illustrating the attitude changes that the Conservative Resurgence has brought about: children, particularly male children, are firmly controlled by adult authority figures, who often make a point of emphasizing that control, in order to keep boys in their place and out of trouble.

Please feel free to contribute any similar letters if you wish to, and I’ll be happy to write the magazine’s response and the psychologist's comments. Thanks to the contributors for this issue!

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Letter published in the It’s Not Fair section of the magazine called Boy Stuff:
(the letter has been written by Zyngaru ( zyngaru@ml1.net ). The response is by Cassie)

Micah (age 14)

Dear It Ain’t Fair,

My name is Micah and I’m 14 years old. I’m in 8th grade and my mommy is my teacher. My school has three 8th grade classes, but for some reason they put me in my mommies class. So school is really hard this year. Mommy has spanked me three times in front of my classmates with my shorts pulled down, on my undies. It’s really embarrassing when the whole class sees my superhero brief undies. They should have let me be in another teachers class. It Ain’t Fair.

Last weekend was my birthday and mommy invited my whole class to a backyard pool party. This was my first boy/girl party and I was excited to have girls at my party. The other boys in my class was excited to, because we was going to get to see all the girls in their bikinis. But mommy made everything go wrong. She made all us boys go nakie at the party. The girls was all looking at our little willies. Mommy even let them touch our willies and play with them. The girls got to wear swimsuits but us boys had to swim nakie. It’ Ain’t Fair.

Just before I got to open my presents, mommy put a chair out and let every girl give me a birthday spanking. I tried really hard, but I couldn’t stop crying. There was 8 girls and after I got my bumbum spanked 8 times I was crying. You ain't supposed to make a boy cry on his birthday. It Ain’t Fair.

When is mommy going to think I am a big boy and treat me like a big boy? She still gives me baths. Has a babysitter come to watch me when she goes out. I want to grow up. Mommy only lets me wear undies at home. Is it wrong for me wanting to be a big boy?

I hope you help me with an answer. If you say that since I’m 14 now that mommy should treat me like a big boy, then I know she will believe you and let me grow up.
Micah

The magazine published response:

Hello Micah,

Thanks for writing to us. You know you always have someone here to listen to you when you are feeling down.

Yes, 8th grade is tough, but you are growing up and you need to study to be prepared for high school. It’s too bad that you got spanked in front of your whole class. It must have been embarrassing when your shorts came down and you knew everyone was staring at your superhero briefs and thinking how childish they looked. But you have to think that it doesn’t really matter that much. I mean, what if they are childish. You are a child, after all, even if you’d like to be grown up already. There will be time for that.

It could have been worse, too. It could have been bare! Your mommy was really kind not to bare your bottom. Imagine how embarrassed you would have been then. Also, it’s not that bad that it’s your mommy. Would it be better if it was some other teacher? You bet your mommy would give them permission to spank if you are naughty.

Which takes us to the crux of the matter: You wouldn’t have to get any spankings if you just behaved and did your work as you should. You know that. Your mommy doesn’t spank you because she wants to make you cry. It’s because she wants to help you remember to behave and be good.

Then again, even if you don’t get spanked on your bare bottom at school, your friends sure saw your bare bottom at your birthday party. A backyard pool party sounds really cool, and it must have been good being able to invite all your class mates, even if you were a bit embarrassed later. You did get to see all the girls in their bikinis. Only they got to see much more… But you know how it is. Girls are more mature, so seeing them in their bikinis counts as much as you being nakie. It wouldn’t be appropriate for girls to be naked, but for boys no one cares. It doesn’t really matter. The other boys were nakie too, weren’t they? So it wasn’t that bad. And it’s an opportunity for the girls to get to know how boys look without their clothes. Sure, it’s embarrassing for all those girls to see everything and know everything about your body, but they will be mommies some day, so they need to know, right?

I’m sorry you cried when you got your birthday spankings. Didn’t you ask them not to spank hard? But I guess that’s something else girls need to learn before they can be mommies: how to spank a naughty boy, and how hard they should do it…

Well, at least I bet you got a lot of nice presents!

You really shouldn’t get so embarrassed. A nice thing about being a boy is the freedom from responsibility and the lack of worries. Little boys can be naked anywhere and it doesn’t matter. No one cares. And you shouldn’t either. Sure, you are fourteen, but that’s how it is with boys, they mature slowly. I mean, it’s not like you are a grownup, is it? You still get bathed by your mommy! You still get a babysitter to look after you when your mommy goes out. It isn’t wrong of you to want to be a big boy, but you are just not there yet. So be patient. Don’t worry if you only are allowed to wear your undies at home. That’s really comfortable and lets you play and be free as a boy.

Micah, your mommy is the one who knows you best. It’s not for me to tell her when you eventually mature. Don’t worry, she’ll know. But it won’t be so soon, because you are still clearly a little boy, with a little boy’s problems and concerns, and a little boy’s way of thinking. And that’s OK. You can take your time. Everyone matures at their own pace. You’ll eventually grow up and become a grownup. But in the meantime you should enjoy being a boy and quit being concerned about that false modesty of yours. I mean, does a boy who is still bathed by his mommy really need to worry about modesty? Of course not, that’s just silly!

A big hug for you, Micah!

Letter published in the It’s Not Fair section of the magazine called Boy Stuff:
(the letter has been written by Zyngaru ( zyngaru@ml1.net ). The response is by Cassie)

Arnie (age 13)

Dear It Isn’t Fair,

My name is Arnold and I am 13 years old. I have been on Puericil since my 10th Birthday. My Mama said she put me on Puericil because I was getting uncontrollable and disrespectful. Since I have been on Puericil, Mama gives me baths. Has a neighbor girl who is only 10 watch me, and she gives me baths. I am kept in short pants year round. It don’t get very cold here where I live, but I am 13 going on 14 in three months and I am still wearing short shorts. It Isn’t Fair.

I read about puericil and it said that it only keeps boys from growing hair. I am bald down there. So that is true. But it also said that it doesn’t mess with any other development, but I am still small and I have a little boy peenie and goobers. Other boys my age have big peenies and hanging goobers, but not me. Is puericil supposed to do that to me? Is something wrong with the drug? Why is my peenie and goobers still the size of a 6 year old? It Isn’t Fair.

I am in 6th grade. Mama held me back two years because she thinks I am immature. Mama came home from the first Parent /Teacher meeting for this year and my Teacher Mrs. Jenkins, told Mama that she feels I am still to immature to be in the upper grades and suggests putting me back to 3rd grade with the 8 year olds. Mama wasn’t sure about doing it, because I learn good and am working at my grade level. It is just how I act at school that has them concerned. My teacher told Mama that if they put me back into 3rd grade then I can mature with the 8 year olds but they can still give me 6th grade lessons to do. We are having fall break, and they need to know what Mama wants to do with me by time school lets back in. I don’t want to go back to 3rd grade, It Isn’t Fair.

Please help keep me from getting put back with the 8 year olds. The 8 year old girls are going to want to mother me and make me play house and doctor and games like that with them. They are going to make me get naked so they can look at my peenie and goobers. It Isn’t Fair!

Please help me.
Arnie.

The magazine published response:

Dear Arnie,

I guess you don’t like having to wear shorts all year round, and even less having your Mama give you baths. Even worse than that, having a little neighbor girl as babysitter who bathes you too… Yikes! That has to be so embarrassing! Having to be naked in front of a ten year-old girl, who can see everything! Every little bit of you! Yes, so embarrassing.

However, if you were getting uncontrollable and disrespectful it’s a good thing that your Mama put you on Puericil. Those are really bad things for a boy, and you could have ended up as a juvenile delinquent. Fortunately, you have a Mama who loves you and took you back under control when you needed it. Getting bathed and wearing shorts is just part of that. Little boys wear shorts, and they can’t be trusted to wash themselves properly. It’s all part of being a little boy.

To answer your question: yes, Puericil keeps boys from growing hair. While you are taking it, you won’t get any hair down there, or under your arms. You’ll just have the hair little boys have: on top of your head, and your brows and eyelashes. Puericil also helps you be a good boy, obedient and not a troublemaker. That’s what regular Puericil does. However, there are several kinds of Puericil, and some of them also keep you from growing too big before you are emotionally ready for that. So if your peenie is really small, like a 6-year-old boy’s, it might be because of the kind of Puericil you are taking, or it might just be that your body is still immature, just like you are still emotionally immature. You will have to ask your Mama. When she is bathing you is a good moment to ask. Since you are naked then, you can just point out how tiny your peenie is and ask her whether it’s because of the Puericil you take. In either case, do not worry. You’ll grow up eventually. Your body will grow at its own pace, or at the pace that Puericil allows. There’s no reason to worry at all. It’s perfectly natural and there’s nothing wrong with the medicine. After all, with you lack of maturity it’s not like you need your peenie for anything except… well, peeing. And for that it’s good enough, so why worry?

You really shouldn’t ask for help to keep you from getting put back in 3rd grade. Arnie, you need to realize that your Mama and your Teacher are the ones who know you best. If your teacher said you are too immature to be in the upper grades, she’s the one who knows you better. Along with your Mama, of course, who is the one who has to decide. The decision is hers, not yours, because little boys don’t have to make decisions like that. You are a boy who can’t even be trusted to bathe himself and needs his Mama and even a younger neighbor girl to get him naked and bathe him. Do you think a boy like that should be trusted to know which grade is better for himself? You’ll have to trust your teacher and your Mama. They’ll really do the best for you, even if you do not realize it now.

I’m not going to lie to you. Yes, 8-year-old girls are curious. They know what they want and usually get it. So, seeing that an older boy like you is put back in third grade with them… yes, they are going to be curious. Little girls can be bossy and pushy, so you should be prepared for them to make you play house and doctor with them. You have to be realistic about these things. Like it or not, you may have a bunch of giggling little girls bossing you around. They’ll pull your shorts down, and your undies too. They’ll see your peenie and your goobers and touch them too, until they satisfy their curiosity. I hope you are lucky and it doesn’t happen, but if it does you should be prepared for it and not let it bother you too much. They are just little girls and they are curious about things. They will not hurt you, and if it’s a bit embarrassing, well, doesn’t your little neighbor girl give you baths? And doesn’t she see you naked then? This is a bit like that.

Anyway, we wish you the best. Just try to be a good boy and obey your Mama. That’s the best way to start convincing her that you are maturing.

A big hug, Arnie!

Letter published in the It’s Not Fair section of the magazine called Boy Stuff:
(the letter has been written by Zyngaru ( zyngaru@ml1.net ). The response is by Cassie)

Willie (age 18)

Dear It Isn’t Fair,

My name is Willie and I am 18 years old. My mother put me on Puericil when I was 12 years old because I was beginning to backtalk and misbehave. As soon as I was put on Puericil, Mother took away my clothes at home. I am still not allowed to wear clothes at home. My 16 year old sister gets to wear clothes, but I can’t. It Isn’t Fair.

That is just one thing I find unfair, but that really isn’t the reason I am writing this letter. My Grandma is sick and Mother and my sister are going to go stay with her and help her get better. They are not letting me go with them. They say that I am still a little boy that needs too much watching over and I would just be underfoot. They say they will be to busy helping Grandma, to bathe me and make sure I brush my teeth and stay out of trouble. So they are going to leave me with a cousin. They are going to pay my 10 year old cousin, Susan to watch me. She is going to have full control over me, which means giving me baths and putting me to bed and spanking me when she thinks I need it. It also means she will see me naked, because Mother says I have to be naked at their house just like ours. It also means that all of Susan’s friends are going to see me naked. It Isn’t fair.

Can you help me? Can you convince my Mother to let me take care of myself while she is gone. I am 18 years old. I can take care of myself. I ain’t a little boy no more. I know mother will listen to you. Please don’t let Susan have control over me. No telling what she will make me do.

Help
Willie

The magazine published response:

Dear Willie,

It's tough not being allowed to wear clothes at home. It must be embarrassing to be naked in front of your mother and your younger sister. And what about when your friends visit? Or worse, your sister's friends, or your mother's. Do you still have to be naked in front of them? Or do you run away and hide in your room?

Anyway, it's tough luck, but I'm sure that if your mom has made that decision she must have a good reason. If you were beginning to backtalk and misbehave when you were only 12, imagine what you might be doing if she hadn't put a stop to it. You are actually lucky that she cared enough to discipline you, you know, even if it's embarrassing sometimes.

It's very kind of your mom and sister to go help your grandma, Willie. We have to help our family when they are in need, and it sounds like your grandma needs help. I'll hope she'll feel better soon. And they have a point about not being able to look after you properly, while they are busy helping your grandma. They won't have time to bathe you, or help you with your homework, or even give you a spanking when you misbehave, and all the things like that that families do for their boys.

So I think it's good that they got your cousin Susan to help look after you. Yes, I get it, she's only 10 and you are much older, so it's kind of embarrassing that she'll be bathing you, and telling you what to do. But you'll have to be a good boy and be obedient. You really shouldn't misbehave while your mom and sister are out helping your sick grandma. Besides, it would only get you spanked, which is even more embarrassing. Can you imagine a 10 year old girl spanking you, at your age? Still, it won't be that embarrassing having her bare your bottom for a spanking, or even get you naked for your bath, since you already will be naked all the time at their home.

But don't pay that much attention to that. Yes, you will be naked, because that's the rule, and yes, she will see you. Is that the end of the world, though? Doesn't your sister see you naked all the time? It hasn't killed you, has it? And she is a girl just like Susan. A girl younger than you. Sure, Susan is much younger, but you don't have to think of it in terms of age. You really can't compare the development of girls and boys. Girls just mature faster. It's a biological fact. So do not think of her as your little cousin. Think of her as a female relative who takes care of you because she is more mature than you, just like your sister and your mom. It's easy to notice her superior maturity because of the differences between you. She's younger, but she doesn't have to be naked at home, does she? And she doesn't get bathed. And she doesn't need to get spankings for being naughty, does she? What does that tell you about the difference in maturity between you two?

If her friends see you too... Well, if it's OK for Susan to see you naked why shouldn't it be OK for her friends? They are young girls, just like her. It will be OK. Probably they will not make a big deal about it if you don't, at least after the novelty has worn off.

Willie, you should not ask me to convince your mother to let you take care of yourself. She knows you better than anyone else in the world, and she loves you. You are her precious child. If she thinks you need someone to help look after you, then I really can not and should not second-guess her. Neither should you. She really knows better than you, and she only wants what's good for you, even if sometimes that's embarrassing.

You are lucky to have a family who loves you, so try to be a good boy for them, OK? You need to be obedient and do everything Susan tells you to do. Be respectful and obedient, and I'm sure it will be fine. And remember that if you aren't, then you will get your bare bottom spanked, and spankings hurt!

A big hug for you, Willie!

(The End)