It's Not Fair

It's Not Fair 32

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This story is set in the Puericil Universe.

See chapter 1 for an explanation about this series. This is another selection of letters from the "It’s Not Fair!" letter column, in "Boy Stuff" magazine. In them, boys complain about how little privacy they are allowed, and about the double standard that makes it OK for people to see them naked but protects girls’ modesty. The intention of this article is illustrating the attitude changes that the Conservative Resurgence has brought about: children, particularly male children, are firmly controlled by adult authority figures, who often make a point of emphasizing that control, in order to keep boys in their place and out of trouble.

Please feel free to contribute any similar letters if you wish to, and I’ll be happy to write the magazine’s response and the psychologist's comments. Thanks to the contributors for this issue!

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Letter published in the It’s Not Fair section of the magazine called Boy Stuff:
(this letter has been written by Captain J The response is by Cassie)

Johnny (age 16)

Dear It’s Not Fair:

Where should I start? OK, my name is Johnny and I’m 16 and I’ve been on Puericil since I was 11. I live with my Mother and sister Vicky who’s just turned 12 and that’s part of my problem. As if my life wasn’t hard enough before, today my Mother announced that my little sister is in charge of me with full rights to discipline me as she sees fit! God I hate to think what she’ll do to me! I mean she’s always been bossy and saw herself as ‘Mommy’s Little Helper’ with regard to me but now… Well to tell the truth I’m scared of her!

I guess I should explain that… you see I’m only 5’ tall and only weigh 87 pounds and my ‘little sister’ just had a major growth spurt and is 5’5” and outweighs me by at least 25 pounds and to top it off is very athletic and strong since she’s always been into sports of all kinds. Heck she’s been bigger and stronger than me since she was 8. Where I haven’t grown any at all since they put me on Puericil 5 years ago and that’s a big part of the problem. Ever since she got bigger than me, she’s treated me as the ‘little brother’ and now Mom’s made it Official. It’s bad enough that I’m the smallest boy in school and get picked on all the time. Now with her in charge, I won’t get any relief even at home…

It wasn’t long after they put me on Puericil that my 7 year old sister was suddenly the same size as me and by the time she was 8, we were the same height and she was much stronger since she’s been doing gymnastics since she was little. Just imagine being a 12 year old boy and having your 8 year old sister able to pick you up and just toss you over her shoulder or carry you around the house like a toddler… That sucked! About that time she took over giving me my baths every day, since Mom decided she could be trusted to ‘make sure the little boy was clean’ and it’s been a downhill slide ever since. I was used to her helping Mom give me baths, but as of then it became Vicky’s job and she made sure I knew it and even spanked me if I didn’t cooperate fully.

I mean I’ve never had any privacy, from either Mom or Vicky (or anyone else for that matter), my bedroom doesn’t even have a door and I’ve never been allowed to close the door when using the bathroom. Both just walk in no matter what I’m doing and likewise have no reservations of stripping me naked no matter who might be present. Mom’s rules have always been that ‘Little Boys don’t need modesty’ and I’ve never had any. Like last week, Mom was doing laundry and I was in the kitchen eating a sandwich when my sister and two of her friends came in and plopped down at the table and joined me. Mom just walked in and told me to undress, so she could add my clothes to the wash. When I hesitated since Vicky’s friends were there, Mom just grabs me and strips off my shirt, while her resident ‘helper’ pulled off my shoes and then pulled my shorts and underwear down and removed them from my feet, handing them to Mom, leaving me naked in front of her friends who got a severe case of the giggles over what my Mother and Sister had done to me. So there I am naked in front of Debbie who’s 11 and Nancy who’s 12 as they snickered and whispered back and forth about how ‘tiny my boy parts are for a teenager’! Worse, Mom decided since I didn’t undress immediately, I had to stay naked for the rest of the day and had the girls following me around all afternoon as they giggled and whispered about me. They took great delight reminding me that they’d all diapered me when I was 13 along with their entire Brownie Scout Troop when Mom used me as a live doll for all the girls to practice on, so I had nothing to hide from them.

At least I didn’t get a spanking, but that was a typical punishment for a ‘very minor’ offense in my Mother’s idea of discipline. My usual punishment would be a spanking, bare-bottom of course followed by corner time, then remaining nude at home, again no matter who is present, for however long she deems ‘appropriate’ for the offense (sometimes as long as a week at a time!). That happens at least once per week for as far back as I can remember. Now for my sister, well that’s a whole different thing. She hasn’t been spanked since she was 6 and then it was just a couple of swats over her clothes, nothing like a spanking for me. Her punishments are things like ‘time-outs’ in her room, but since she still has her computer access and cell phone, and she can talk to her friends she doesn’t care. She doesn’t even care when she’s ‘grounded’ since she can still have her friends visit and they just play here rather than at one of their houses. It’s not Fair!

So why is he scared? You’re probably asking yourself. Simple, where up until now we always had babysitters when Mom had to be away. Usually girls either the same age as me, slightly younger or at most one year older than me. That in itself was embarrassing for me. Having a girl you have to sit in class with or see every day at school as your babysitter was cause for lots of teasing over the years. Especially since the girls always made sure they personally gave me my baths and knew how immature my body was. Now it’s my Sister who’ll be the babysitter for me, as she is deemed not to need one anymore. She’s already threatened to have me naked all the time at home and said she’d invite all of the girls in the neighborhood to visit as well as the few friends I have that are boys, so they can all see me that way. She’s also made it clear that she believes I need to be spanked more often than Mom has done in the past and that she’s now authorized to do the spanking, I just know I’m in for frequent sore butts with her in charge. Like I said, Vicky’s always been bossy with me and now has the ability to really make my life hell! Isn’t there anything I can do to change things?

IT’s NOT FAIR! Please Help!

Johnny

The magazine published response:

Dear Johnny,

I sympathize with your predicament, but in some things I think you are going about this the wrong way. You accept your Mom's right to give you orders, and you obey her. You accept that your Mom gives you baths. You accept that she sets the rules you have to follow. You accept that she spanks your bottom when you are naughty... And why? Well, because she is your Mom and cares about you, because she is a grown-up and knows better than you.

However, when it comes to Vicky you have more difficulties. And why? Why do you find it hard to accept her obvious authority over you? I think it's because you don't think of her as an authority figure, since she is your sister and she is younger than you. However, while it is true that she is younger than you, she is bigger than you in size and, much more importantly, she is bigger than you in maturity, authority and self-confidence. This is nothing to be ashamed of, it's just a scientific fact, a matter of life that boys mature much slower than girls. When you try to fight against reality you are bound to lose and suffer.

You say that you are scared of what your little sister will do to you now that she has full authority over you, but you know what you haven't said? A single example of her punishing you without a reason.

When it comes to child development, maturity is what matters. You may be older than Vicky, but she is so far ahead of you in terms of maturity that there's not even a contest. Compared to her you are a little boy, and compared to you she is a young adult. Is it any wonder then that your Mom has given her full authority over you? Anything different would be strange. For goodness' sake, she's been bathing you for many years! She has been getting you naked and into the tub, and soaping you, touching and seeing every single part of your body, every day! What do you have to hide from her, then? How can you have any doubts that she is in charge of you, infinitely more mature than you? Do you think a girl four years younger than you would be doing that if that were not the case? She bathes you now when you are 16, and she's been doing so since you were 12. Even before that, she helped your mom with your baths. You complain that she would spank you if you didn't cooperate fully, but precisely being obedient and cooperating fully is what you are supposed to do, Johnny.

Then we come about the "modesty" issue. Think about it, you are a boy who has always been bathed by his mom and his little sister, who has got spanked on the bare bottom by them. They have seen every single part of your body, and it's not a one-off thing. On the contrary, they see you naked every day. So what do you have to hide? What does it matter that you have no door in your bedroom, or that you are not allowed to lock the bathroom door and they come in whenever they want. What does it matter? What difference does it make? Don't they see you naked all the time, anyway? Aren't they familiar with every square inch of your bare body?

And then, if your mom and your little sister, a girl younger than you, see you naked all the time, can you really claim that you need modesty like a grown-up boy? They have no reservations of stripping you naked no matter who might be present. I understand that can be embarrassing, but should you make a big deal out of it? Your Mom and Vicky see you naked all the time, don't they? Is it so different that other people see you naked too? Even girls. After all, isn't Vicky a girl, too?

Your mom thinks that little boys don't need modesty. There are many parents and many child care experts who believe that. Isn't she the one who is in charge of you? Then maybe you should accept it and not make such a big deal of it. Think about it, when she asked you to undress so she could add your clothes to the wash you refused. What for? Yes, Vicky's friends were there, but haven't girls that age seen you naked before, starting with your sister herself? In fact, all the girls there had already seen you naked and seen everything! What else do you feel you need to hide? And doesn't your mom tell you that boys don't need modesty? Why don't you just obey without making a big deal, then? Instead, you choose to refuse and make a fuss. The result, you get undressed anyway. All the girls, your little sister's friends, see you naked all the same. But they also see you acting all childish and immature, with such false modesty. It's no wonder they decide to tease you. If you had accepted it naturally they wouldn't make such a big deal out of it, at least after the first few times. Besides, you got punished for your disobedience, having to stay naked, and you are lucky you did not get spanked.

You should not worry about how your sister is disciplined, Johnny. Different maturity, different disciplinary needs. Just worry about yourself and about obeying your mom and Vicky. If you did not have such a bad attitude towards her, you would probably have it much easier, and she probably wouldn't feel the need to be hard on you. It's a bad idea to antagonize someone who has total authority over you, like your little sister. My advice is to apologize to her for your bad attitude and tell her that from now on you will be a good little boy for her and obey her in everything. In everything, Johnny! Try that change in attitude and you'll see that life becomes easier and you do not get punished so often. Of course Vicky is bossy. She is the boss of you. How could it be any different when she is bigger, stronger and so far ahead of you in maturity? This is a war that you should not be fighting, young man.

Make no mistake, Vicky will boss you around whether you like it or not, and she will be doing so for years. If you are completely obedient and accept her authority over you with a good attitude, you'll see that your relationship with her will improve. Things will be better at home and she might even help you at school, protecting you from the kids who pick on you.

Think about it, Johnny, and don't create a big problem for yourself where there really isn't one. A big hug from me and my best wishes!
INF

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