By NAMB
Copyright 2025 by NAMB all rights reserved
[742 words]
* * * * *Dear Ms. Masturbatrix,
Why is it that boys like it more
when girls jerk them off than when they do it themselves? I mean, a boy
should know what a boy likes. My friends tell me the same thing. Their
boyfriends like it when they give them a handjob. I’m not complaining,
masturbating a boy this way is a lot of fun.
Curious in Columbus
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Dear Curious,
A penis doesn’t know who is jerking it, but the boy that is attached to
it does know. First of all, there is the psychological aspect to it. He
is vulnerable and the heightened sense of embarrassment raises the
blood pressure which makes the boy’s penis harder and more sensitive.
As much as they do not like to admit it, it seems like most boys get off on having a girl control them.
Then there is a difference in purpose. To understand this concept, you
need to understand the difference between a closed ended game and an
open ended game.
A closed ended game has strict rules, scores
and time limits. The objective of a closed ended game is to run up the
score and run out the clock. Name any sport and it has rules and limits
and scores. Boys like playing closed ended games.
An open
ended game has more flexible rules and the objective isn’t to outscore
someone else and get the game over with. The objective is to have fun
and extend the play for as long as possible. Open ended games usually
take more imagination to play. Playing dress up, playing school and
other role playing games are usually open-ended. Nobody wins; nobody
loses; and everyone has fun. Girls like playing open ended games.
For a boy, masturbation is a closed ended game: get to orgasm as quickly as possible and then stop.
For a girl, masturbating a boy is an open ended game. The objective
isn’t to get the boy to orgasm, although that is fun to do and watch,
it’s to enjoy playing with his penis and watching how you control him
as you do it.
For boys, jerking off is something to get done. For girls, jerking off is something to do.
You also brought up a valid point that a boy should know what a boy likes. There are three points in male masturbation.
The first of these is the urgency point. This is the point where a boy
feels that he can’t stop. This point exists mostly in the boy’s mind.
If stimulation is stopped at this point. Ejaculation will not occur,
but few boys have the discipline to stop when they get here.
The second point is the flash point. This is the point where even if all stimulation ceases, ejaculation will occur.
Then there is the ejaculation itself.
Boys typically rush past these three points and there is only a matter
of seconds or even less between the first point and ejaculation.
A smart girl can “read” these points in a boy. She has a gentler touch
and has the patience and willpower to bring the boy along slowly. An
experienced girl can bring a boy past the first point where he feels
the urge to continue but stop short of the second point where an actual
ejaculation will occur.
In other words, girls are in a much
better position to edge a boy than the boy is himself. She can keep him
on an elevated level of excitement that he can’t endure on his own.
Then there is the girl who can drive him to the second peak and then
stop. The boy will carry on under his own momentum to a ruined
ejaculation.
A ruined ejaculation is the gold standard for a
girl jerking off a boy. Since the ejaculation is not complete, the
refractory period goes out the window. A girl can take over again with
only a minute or two rest and cause the boy to have another one on the
heels of the first. A skilled girl can get multiple ejaculations out of
a boy in a relatively short period of time. The penis is left in a
heightened sensitive state after a ruined ejaculation.
It all
comes down to this: a girl has more control over a boy’s penis than he
does himself. Be glad that you do not have anything on your body like
this that someone else can use to control you.
Happy Masturbating.