12 year old nudist
By Willie B.
williebflorida@gmail.com
Copyright 2023 by Willie B., all rights reserved
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12 year old son has
decided to be a nudist. How do I go about dealing with this?
Dear Willie,
We
are having a slight problem in our house at the moment. Our 12 year old
son has decided that he wants to be a nudist. The last time he was okay
being nude around me was when he was 7 and started wanting privacy at
bath time. Suddenly he's not even the slightest bit embarrassed about
going nude around the house. For the past few days he's been in the
buff from the moment I wake him up until he's dressed for school, and
then he strips nude again as soon as he's home. This past weekend he
was nude the entire time he was at home. My husband says not to worry
about it, that its a passing phase, but our son’s at an age
where his
body is changing and I think it may be best if he covers up sometimes.
He's also at that age where erections occur randomly and he doesn't
seem particularly concerned. I sat down and had a talk with him and he
says that they aren’t sexual and that he just wants to try
being naked
for awhile and see how it feels. I know he'll outgrow this eventually,
but should I put a stop to it before then?
Concerned Mom
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Dear Concerned,
I
don’t know what gave you the idea that I’m running
an advice column. I
can only imagine it has something to do with my stories. I live in
Florida, where it is made quite clear that it is the parent who should
be in charge, not your child. Nevertheless, it is a common mistake for
parents to try to exercise their authority in ways that are bound to
fail. My experience with children of any age, but particularly with
teenagers, is that they will take their clothes off, not only to bathe
but in all manner of circumstances. Your son has offered you the
perfect opportunity by starting to go nude. My recommendation is to
mandate that he will henceforth be naked at home at all times,
regardless of who is visiting. Follow up by inviting people over to the
house on a regular basis. This should include his friends as well as
your own.
Don’t buy the argument that this isn’t sexual.
Whether
you realize it or not you are partially responsible for your
son’s
development as an erotic person. If this were Florida your options
would be clear: strip the kid and put him on the pills. He’d
be naked
and his penis hard and erect for at least the next 8 years of his life,
at home and in public. It is very important for teenagers to be on
display as they grow into their fully sexual adult selves. We do this
unthinkingly with girls. The Stripped For Florida program has made this
far more common for boys as well. Since you don’t live in
Florida
you’ll need to be a little more creative.
Ask around and find
out if there is a group of artists that needs a nude model and
volunteer your son. If you have nudist campgrounds or venues in your
state you can have your son volunteer to do simple jobs. In the
meanwhile encourage him to improve his swimming skills with the goal of
becoming a lifegaurd at the nudist venue swimming pool.
As for
sexual skills, give your son two goals to accomplish by the time he
turns 14. Tell him he needs to learn to masturbate himself to full
orgasm within 60 seconds or less. Let him know that you or your husband
will be requesting a demonstration of his ability at any time of the
day. I would recommend keeping this exercise as a private family
activity.
The other skill to work towards is being able to
stay on the brink of orgasm for an hour or longer. By the time
he’s 15
up the required time to two hours. Edging is a skill that he can
practice on his own, but it is even more effective to hire a massage
coach to come work with your son. You can put your son on display when
you have your friends over for drinks, dinner or a barbecue. Set your
son up on a massage table in the corner of the room or patio and have
the coach work the boy during the entire party.
The boy
doesn’t have to be center stage, but as he’s worked
closer and closer
to climax the increasing sexual tension will add a palpable energy to
your gathering. You may choose to have your son’s hearing
blocked with
earplugs, but I would strongly recommend that you keep his eyesight
clear so that he is aware of the other people in the room. If you
really want to tease your guests bid them good-bye and end the party
before your son is brought to the culminating ejaculation.
Whatever
you choose to do, remember that you are the parent and that you make
the choices regarding your son’s nudity and how it is
displayed.
Regards,
Willie B.
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