Stripped For Florida

12 year old nudist

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12 year old son has decided to be a nudist. How do I go about dealing with this?

Dear Willie,

We are having a slight problem in our house at the moment. Our 12 year old son has decided that he wants to be a nudist. The last time he was okay being nude around me was when he was 7 and started wanting privacy at bath time. Suddenly he's not even the slightest bit embarrassed about going nude around the house. For the past few days he's been in the buff from the moment I wake him up until he's dressed for school, and then he strips nude again as soon as he's home. This past weekend he was nude the entire time he was at home. My husband says not to worry about it, that its a passing phase, but our son’s at an age where his body is changing and I think it may be best if he covers up sometimes. He's also at that age where erections occur randomly and he doesn't seem particularly concerned. I sat down and had a talk with him and he says that they aren’t sexual and that he just wants to try being naked for awhile and see how it feels. I know he'll outgrow this eventually, but should I put a stop to it before then?

Concerned Mom

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Dear Concerned,

I don’t know what gave you the idea that I’m running an advice column. I can only imagine it has something to do with my stories. I live in Florida, where it is made quite clear that it is the parent who should be in charge, not your child. Nevertheless, it is a common mistake for parents to try to exercise their authority in ways that are bound to fail. My experience with children of any age, but particularly with teenagers, is that they will take their clothes off, not only to bathe but in all manner of circumstances. Your son has offered you the perfect opportunity by starting to go nude. My recommendation is to mandate that he will henceforth be naked at home at all times, regardless of who is visiting. Follow up by inviting people over to the house on a regular basis. This should include his friends as well as your own.

Don’t buy the argument that this isn’t sexual. Whether you realize it or not you are partially responsible for your son’s development as an erotic person. If this were Florida your options would be clear: strip the kid and put him on the pills. He’d be naked and his penis hard and erect for at least the next 8 years of his life, at home and in public. It is very important for teenagers to be on display as they grow into their fully sexual adult selves. We do this unthinkingly with girls. The Stripped For Florida program has made this far more common for boys as well. Since you don’t live in Florida you’ll need to be a little more creative.

Ask around and find out if there is a group of artists that needs a nude model and volunteer your son. If you have nudist campgrounds or venues in your state you can have your son volunteer to do simple jobs. In the meanwhile encourage him to improve his swimming skills with the goal of becoming a lifegaurd at the nudist venue swimming pool.

As for sexual skills, give your son two goals to accomplish by the time he turns 14. Tell him he needs to learn to masturbate himself to full orgasm within 60 seconds or less. Let him know that you or your husband will be requesting a demonstration of his ability at any time of the day. I would recommend keeping this exercise as a private family activity.

The other skill to work towards is being able to stay on the brink of orgasm for an hour or longer. By the time he’s 15 up the required time to two hours. Edging is a skill that he can practice on his own, but it is even more effective to hire a massage coach to come work with your son. You can put your son on display when you have your friends over for drinks, dinner or a barbecue. Set your son up on a massage table in the corner of the room or patio and have the coach work the boy during the entire party.

The boy doesn’t have to be center stage, but as he’s worked closer and closer to climax the increasing sexual tension will add a palpable energy to your gathering. You may choose to have your son’s hearing blocked with earplugs, but I would strongly recommend that you keep his eyesight clear so that he is aware of the other people in the room. If you really want to tease your guests bid them good-bye and end the party before your son is brought to the culminating ejaculation.

Whatever you choose to do, remember that you are the parent and that you make the choices regarding your son’s nudity and how it is displayed.

Regards,
Willie B.

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