By heimito
Copyright 2023 by heimito all rights reserved
* * * * *The Age of Puericil
How a Therapy Reformed Society
[This study is funded and sponsored by the makers
of Puericil, offering Comprehensive Puberty Management,
including post-puberty syndrome. Use only as directed.]
1. Introduction
This
is a lay person’s guide to the revolutionary drug Puericil. In various
formulations, Puericil is widely prescribed for boys to slow or block
puberty, and to regress adolescent or even adult men to a physically
pre-pubertal state.
The blocking or regression effects are
typically accompanied by major psychological benefits. For example,
males suffering from anxiety, depression, paranoia, and rage—all common
symptoms of toxic masculinity—usually get rapid relief from these
symptoms after treatment with Puericil.
In short, the toxic
masculinity that has plagued industrialized nations may be cured by
timely treatment with Puericil. Because of its extraordinary
effectiveness and near-total lack of undesirable side effects, Puericil
is increasingly used prophylactically for both adolescent and
pre-pubertal boys, even in the absence of neurotic symptoms. Puericil
has also been shown to be effective in treating “post-pubertal
syndrome” (grandiosity, megalomania) in adult men.
2. Development of Puericil: Early Experience
The
Puericil now in use is actually a drug cocktail. Its chemical
components are adjusted, based on the age of the patient and desired
results. In contrast, the original Puericil was a simpler drug that did
one thing only: It blocked the action of the male hormone
(testosterone) on hair follicles.
Thus, boys who did not yet
have whiskers or body hair would not grow them; boys who already had
body hair, with or without whiskers, would see all such hair fall out
in a few days after beginning treatment. For all boys taking Puericil,
scalp hair becomes fuller and faster growing. To this extent, Puericil
boys might look a bit girlish. These effects were not permanent; when
use of the drug was discontinued, age-appropriate hair growth patterns
and development would resume.
Puericil in its original
formulation was intended as a disciplinary tool in schools. Authorities
could impose a period of Puercil treatment for misconduct such as
bullying. Usually, the treatment was offered to the misbehaving boy as
an alternative to suspension or expulsion. During the period of
treatment, which might vary in length at the discretion of the
authorities, the boy was required to receive counseling and to be nude
while in school.
The treatment plan aimed to rehabilitate the
offender through a combination of positive reinforcement [counseling]
and negative reinforcement [public shaming]. Collectively, these
measures are referred to as the Puericil Disciplinary Program [PDP].
Program administrators asserted that the traditional sanctions
(suspension or expulsion) were entirely negative and rarely led to
rehabilitation. Instead, traditional sanctions tended to reinforce the
offender’s delinquency by interfering with his education and isolating
him from his peer group. In particular, expulsion often led to gang
membership and criminal activity.
Some early successes, based
on limited observation, prompted widespread use of the PDP in some
urban school districts. But after only a few months, program
administrators found certain inadequacies. Behavior improvement tended
to be short-term. In some cases, misconduct actually increased. Overall
experience was positive, but not to the extent anticipated. The
following case study is illustrative. (Names used in the case studies
below are all pseudonyms.)
Case Study No. 1: Norman G
Q. When did you begin taking Puericil? How long did you take it?
They
stuck me in the PDP [Puericil Disciplinary Program] when I was in
eighth grade, so I must have been around 14. I must've been one of the
first guys to get the treatments. I was definitely the first in my
school. I'm not sure whether that made it harder or easier for me.
So what it was, I got weekly shots for four months. During that time, I
was naked in school except for footwear and, in gym, a jockstrap. I was
also ineligible for school sports. That hurt because I was a star
athlete, but it was middle school, so no big deal.
After I
stopped getting the shots, most things went back to normal. I could
dress and do sports. The counseling continue to the end of the school
year, so maybe another three months.
Q. Why were you placed in the PDP?
I
don't remember. I kid you not. At that age, I was doing a ton of
dumbass things, like most of the other cool guys. I got away most of
the stuff, or I thought I did. The school staff soon got the idea that
I and two or three others were the rotten eggs. We were jerks, that’s
for sure, but we had company. Anyway, I got blamed for graffiti,
letting air out of teachers’ tires, destruction of school property. I
did some of that, too, but mostly I was a bully.
I picked on
kids who looked funny, I picked on nerds and eggheads, and I picked on
seventh graders. Mostly it was just verbal, taunting and name-calling,
but yeah, it did get physical sometimes.
I particularly hated
smart kids who turned their noses up at us jocks. Those smart kids, I
liked to give ‘em knobbies – grind my knuckles into the top or side of
the head. And we tripped kids, slammed them against the wall, locked
them into their lockers. One time I sat a little seventh grade kid on a
water fountain and turned it on, wet the seat of his pants clear
through. Hilarious, huh?
No, I never stole, I never shook down
kids for their lunch money. No shit like that. The guys who did those
kinds of things, if they were caught, faced a lot worse punishment than
the PDP!
Complain? No, the kids we bullied wouldn't complain,
they were too scared. We were big guys, we picked on little guys. If we
thought a guy might fight back, two or three of us would corner him.
But then a kid did complain. One of the nerds broke down completely, he
stood in the hallway sobbing. When they took him to the office, he
named names. We had been stupid enough to bully him in a classroom when
the teacher had left toward the end of the period. Most of the class
saw us pushing this nerd around. So the administration hauled in the
whole class, and everyone confirmed the kid’s story.
When they
offered me a choice between the PDP and expulsion, I was thrilled to
take the PDP. The guy I’d ganged up with chose expulsion. He wound up
at the so-called vocational high school, where the students are mostly
retards and criminals-in-training. They taught him what it was like to
be on the butt-end of bullying.
Q. What was your experience in the PDP?
At first, I was ashamed. The nakedness was tough for a 14-year-old. Some kids humiliated me, but not
the kids I bullied. They were still scared. No, I got razzed by my
fellow bullies, who’d all done the same shit I did or worse, and had
gotten away with it. Of course, some of them soon got caught themselves
and joined me in the PDP.
The first week, I'll tell ya, I had
second thoughts about expulsion. Little kids happily walk around naked;
big kids (like I was supposed to be) keep their clothes on. So, yeah, I
got it: act like a little kid, you'll be treated like a little kid.
That was the reasoning behind the PDP at that time.
Looking
like a little kid meant losing the pubes along with the clothes. You
lost the clothes immediately but not the pubes. See, they didn't shave
us, and the drug took some time to kick in.
That first week,
your pubes fell out gradually; every day, they got noticeably thinner.
Kind of like a striptease, and each day I felt myself get more naked.
I was an early bloomer, and I was big for my age too, but I actually
didn't have much body hair then. Lots of kids had more hair sooner than
I did. I was pretty vain about the thin little patch of pubes that
started appearing when I was 13 and took its own sweet time about
filling in. I just about cried over losing that patch. Every day, I
checked my increasing baldness in the mirror. Not that I needed to:
Every day at school my pals eagerly gave me a progress report.
The stronger hairs go first, then the wispy hairs. When they say your
body hair falls out, they don't exaggerate. Even the peach fuzz
disappears. I was, like, newborn.
My voice had already broken,
and that's not something that the drug affects, at least not back then,
but that first week I really felt like I had lost several years off my
age. All in my head I guess, but when I was asked a question, sometimes
I started answering with a squeak like I hadn't heard coming out of my
mouth since I was, like, 10.
My PDP started in the late fall.
I'd lost my summer tan. My body it was pale, but I was blushing all the
time. When I walked down the hall, I must've looked like a big baby,
all pink and white, and lots of girls made cooing sounds at me. That's
not the effect a would-be stud is hoping for. Then suddenly, after the
first week, I got over it and started enjoying myself.
Q. What changed?
The
novelty wore off. People got used to the naked guy, and I got used to
myself being naked. I realized I was taller and more muscular than even
most of the ninth graders one year ahead of me, and I got back my
self-assurance. Kids could gawk at me, they could smirk, but nothing
they could do would cut me down to their size.
Speaking of size, I already told you I was an early bloomer. At 14, I had a man’s dick, and then some. Soft I had at least six thick inches.
Y’know, a teen boy’s boners can be huge and long-lasting. My boner
must've stuck out 10 inches. You can bet every girl and every boy was
staring at it. Walking around with my dick swinging back-and-forth and
plenty of cute girls in sight, I was popping boners all day long.
Some people think that JD's [juvenile delinquents] act out to prove
their manhood. Well, the PDP was supposed to take away my manhood, but
it did the opposite. My manhood was displayed and boned-up for the
whole school to admire. I didn't even try to show off, but after the
first week I didn't try to hide it either. If this is what you want,
this is what you get!
Soon, things got even better. Puericil
stimulates growth of scalp hair. I wore my hair long even before the
PDP. Most of the current pop stars had shoulder length hair, and soon I
did too. Plus, I was getting company in the PDP. There was solidarity
among us naked guys; I even got respect as a pioneer.
And it
gets better still. It got to be a cool thing among many girls to date a
guy in the PDP. A little risky, a little edgy – but not too risky because we were on probation for as long as we were in the program; we'd be expelled for any misstep.
I dated a lot
of girls that year; they used to joke that they liked to see me clothed
for a change! And I learned a lot. I never took more than a girl was
willing to give, mostly groping and kissing, which was still more than
I was used to. Sex a couple of times, with protection. I needed the practice: Slipping a condom onto a thick10-inch cock takes practice.
By the end of my time in the PDP, I'd become the Big Man on Campus. I
kept working out, so my body looked great. I got my hair styled. I was
taking care of my hygiene, which anyone who ever smelled a middle
school boy might appreciate. I was Mr. Suave.
Q. How were you evaluated at the end of the PDP?
Well,
I had passed my probation, but that was the only good thing they had to
say about me. They said I'd morphed from typical bully to male
chauvinist. In other words, I had channeled my “toxic masculinity”
instead of getting over it. They considered the PDP a failure in my
case.
Q. What's your opinion?
I was a cocky
shit when I started the PDP, and I was still a cocky shit at the end,
so I guess I didn't meet their expectations. But their expectations
were unrealistic: An immature 14-year-old boy will still have to do a
lot more growing up at 15.
What they didn't acknowledge is
that at 15, I was a much calmer, happier person. More to the point, the
behavior that landed me in the PDP stopped forever. I never pulled
another stunt or laid a finger on another kid. How is that a failure?
Q. So do you consider the PDP a success in your case?
My
experience doesn't prove anything about the PDP one way or another. I
did get better, but maybe I would've gotten better anyway. And don't
forget that the PDP came with a full year of counseling.
Q. Please say more about the counseling.
It
was variable. It seems they were trying out different approaches. Some
kids got a kind of weekly civics lecture; they hated it. Some kids had
something like group therapy, sometimes involving the kids that they
bullied. This seemed to work fairly well.
My counseling amounted to a literature class. We read books like Tom Sawyer and To Kill a Mockingbird.
Did we discuss our misconduct? Not in so many words, but the books we
read were all about coming-of-age and pressures to conform and the lies
that adults tell us. When I look at these books now, they strike me as
lightweight, but back then they made me think. They didn't make me feel
bad. It was fun to read them and fun to think and talk about them. The
woman who taught the class mostly just asked questions and never passed
judgment. Now I know her class was like a college seminar. I got to
looking forward to it.
Do you mind if I talk some more about the PDP? These are not thoughts I had then, they are ideas that came to me years later.
Q. Sure, go ahead!
OK.
Remember, I mentioned the reasoning behind the PDP: Act like a little
kid, get treated like a little kid. That reasoning is screwed up in a
bunch of ways.
First off, little kids throw temper
tantrums. We were not little kids, and the things we did weren’t
tantrums. Our middle-school pranks were deliberate. They might be
impulsive sometimes, but they always had an element of calculation. A
tantrum draws attention to itself, but we expected to get away with
what we did.
Second, parents use shaming to get their
six-year-old (or seven-year-old or eight-year-old or whatever) to
abandon conduct that may actually have been fine when the kid was a
toddler, like needing help for bathing or tying his shoes. I'm not sure
shaming is a good way to teach lessons to kids of any age. But as I said, I don't think a bully is acting like a little kid. If anything, the bully is trying to exert adult
authority to intimidate a younger/smaller kid. In fact, the bully is
usually shaming his target. Maybe the bully is imitating his parents!
That brings me to my third point. The PDP assumes that the juvenile
placed in the program knows how to act right but perversely fails to
behave according to that norm. What if the assumption is wrong?
I think there's a big stretch of time when we're no longer little kids
but not nearly adults, especially in our mental and emotional maturity.
As adolescents, we get a mixed message. We are supposed to treat others
with respect, but every day we see what amounts to bullying by adults,
beginning with our teachers and parents, or so it seems to us. (Every
American politician should be sent to the PDP for at least a year; one
year is not enough for British politicians!)
So, bullying is
NOT childish behavior, it’s an attempt to assume a kind of misguided
maturity, to act like an adult. The PDP itself, at least in my time,
totally misses this point. The bully will learn nothing useful from a
punishment that tries to reduce him to childishness.
Q. If you’ve thought about later versions of the PDP, what’s your opinion?
From
what I've heard, later versions of the PDP seem much more promising.
The perception now seems to be that emotional maturation, like physical
maturation, is variable. The PDP now tries to better align physical and
mental maturation. From that perspective, I start to see how delaying
or slowing down physical maturation might be reasonable, at least in
some cases. Shaming should not be part of the therapy. Instead the boy
receiving treatment should feel cared for, not humiliated. Forced
nudity isn’t helpful; it may even backfire, as you can see from my
story.
Comment on Case Study No. 1:
Experience
with Norman G and other boys treated with the original formulation of
Puericil shows that the elimination of body hair did not, by itself,
achieve the desired results. The results over the near-term could even
be considered counterproductive, as Norman G explains.
Norman
G was physically imposing before, during, and after the Puericil
Disciplinary Program. The elimination of his body hair had only a brief
effect on his swagger. Although his conduct gradually improved, the
improvement seems a function of his increasing mental maturity. Perhaps
the PDP contributed to his maturation, but the evidence is inconclusive.
Many of the bullies enrolled in the early PDP resembled Norman G
physically, but there were many other boys who were smaller or at an
earlier Tanner stage (that is, in early puberty or even pre-pubertal).
In all cases, the drug they received was no more than a sophisticated
depilatory. Aside from body hair and whiskers, the treated boys were
completely normal in their physical development, including genital
growth. The genitals of some of the boys doubled or even tripled in
size over the course of the PDP. To state the obvious, such development
does not prevent or discourage toxic masculinity.
3. Reformulation of Puericil: Puberty Blocker [Puericil/PB]
Advocates
of a reformulated Puericil argued that “toxic masculinity” was the
neurosis behind most misconduct by boys in the 10 to 15 age range. They
further argued that the onset of puberty often triggers a neurotic
breakout, which could affect even previously well-behaved boys.
The mistake of the early Puericil Disciplinary Program (according to
these advocates) was to treat only the physical manifestation of
puberty and to limit that treatment to only one such manifestation,
namely, adult male hair growth. Allowing puberty to otherwise take its
course would do little to avoid the toxic masculinity syndrome; thus,
few boys were likely to benefit from the early PDP, except possibly
from counseling.
The consensus view was that the PDP should
take a holistic approach to puberty in boys. Following this logic, the
reformulated Puericil added a puberty blocker to the testosterone
inhibitor.
(NOTE: Puberty
blockers work on the pituitary gland; they do affect testosterone, but
only indirectly. In boys, secretion of the growth hormone by the
pituitary gland marks the onset of puberty. The boy has a growth spurt;
as part of the growth stimulus, production of testosterone is
activated. But the rising testosterone level affects the pituitary
gland by causing the secretion of growth hormone to taper off. The ends
of the boy’s long bones seal, so the boy’s arms and legs do not
lengthen further. Testosterone production continues long after adult
size is reached and secretion of the growth hormone stops, so secondary
male characteristics usually become more pronounced for many years
beyond puberty.
(Puberty blockers can prevent puberty, or slow
its progress if administered in early puberty. They stop production of
the growth hormone, so the boy’s testosterone level remains very low as
long as the treatment continues. The treated boy remains physically a
child, or does not advance beyond whatever stage of puberty he had
reached, but his intellectual and social skills develop normally.)
Puberty
blockers have been successfully prescribed for genetic boys expressing
transgender tendencies. One benefit of preventing or slowing puberty is
that it enabled the subject individual to test transgenderism before
deciding whether to begin transition therapies such as hormone
replacement and surgeries. Besides this benefit, postponing the
development of secondary male characteristics dramatically improved the
mental outlook of transgendered boys. Finally, achieving a feminine
appearance was easier for males who had never developed adult male
bodies. On the other hand, a boy who decided against transition could
simply discontinue the blocker. The puberty he then experienced would
be later but not otherwise significantly different from puberty in
untreated boys.
Puericil/PB would enable treated boys to avoid
the stresses of puberty while they matured mentally. Advocates expected
the boys would go on to a relatively well-adjusted adolescence, without
permanent physical effects, after completion of the PDP. The boy would
have to demonstrate his mental maturity as a condition of leaving the
PDP. Consequently, a boy might be in the PDP for less than a year, or
possibly for a year or more (but not beyond the age of 16 or leaving
middle school, whichever came first).
The effects of the
testosterone inhibitor would be noticeable in a week or a little more.
(See Case Study No. 1.) The effects of the puberty blocker would
require more time to be noticeable, but as the injections continued and
months turned into years, the boy’s physical development would lag more
and more behind his peers. The boy’s muscles would barely grow, even if
he worked out regularly; his voice would not break unless it had broken
before the boy entered the PDP; his body would be hairless and his face
free of acne; and the increase of his height, weight, and genital size
would be negligible.
At that time, use of Puericil/PB had very
broad support. Those who wanted the PDP to be shame-based and punitive
were satisfied that Puericil/PB would soon strip the delinquent of all
outward signs of mature masculinity. Others (like Norman G above) who
stressed the PDP’s prophylactic and rehabilitative aspects were pleased
that the delinquent would be able to grow up at his own pace and to
learn the social skills of adults before physically becoming an adult.
Forced nudity remained part of the PDP, but the regimen was
substantially modified. As more and more boys participated in the PDP,
non-participants found nudity less shocking, while participants
experienced increasing solidarity (“misery loves company”). Under the
new regimen, a given participant is naked only one day a week,
according to a fixed rotation, such that one-fifth of a school’s PDP
participants would be naked on any given day. A participant’s naked day
would begin with his being publicly stripped by his homeroom teacher,
often a woman. Stripping by such a parent surrogate ensured that
shaming would remain an essential strategy of the PDP.
Case Study No. 2: George L
Q. When did you begin taking Puericil/PB? How long did you take it?
I was 12 years, three months, and 10 days. A Red Letter Day for me! I still take Puericil/PB. I’m getting close to 16 now, and if I had my way I would never stop taking it.
Q. Do other boys in the Puericil Disciplinary Program feel the same way as you do?
Some
boys do. If you’re asking me to guess, I’d say almost everybody
nowadays has a good experience. Can’t say how many are as enthusiastic
as I am, but I’m sure not the only one!
Q. Why has the
administration continued you in the program? Are you still having
disciplinary problems, or is there a concern about potential relapse?
Lots
of people ask that question. Here’s what I know. Any boy in the PDP,
his case is reviewed periodically. I think it’s now quarterly. Lots of
things are considered in deciding whether to discharge a boy, and I
think the reviewers have a lot of discretion. So, I’ve been reviewed a
bunch of times.
No, I’m not having the kind of disciplinary
problems that got me into the PDP in the first place. However, my
teachers say I’m easily distracted. What can I say? I admit I’m playful
and not much for studying. On the other hand, I’m way more calm than I
used to be. I’m always in a good mood. Most kids my age are becoming
more serious. I guess I’m immature in that way. The idea that all of a
sudden I should buckle down and hit the books and think about my
college major and get a job for after-school doesn’t sound good to me
at all.
Going off Puericil/PB does worry me a lot. I mean I’m
doing so good now, attitude-wise. And the reviewers do consider those
things. One of the reports said that I don’t seem ready to take on
adult responsibilities and shouldn’t be forced, I’m still more than two
years away from graduating high school, so there’s time. I agree with
that report. I really don’t think it’s tough call. I was a pretty
miserable and nervous kid before getting into the PDP. Now in the PDP,
I’ve got a different attitude and I’m much much happier. Why change now?
Q. Why were you placed in the PDP?
It’s
strange to think about now. I was hassling girls. Trying to look up
their skirts, cop a feel. I was caught trying to hide a camera in the
girls’ locker room. That was the last straw.
What was strange
about it was, I’m gay, and even then I was pretty sure I was gay. I was
definitely well into puberty. I’d started jacking off when I was 11,
I’d grown pubes, and when I fantasized, I thought about boys, never
girls.
Q. So why were you “hassling” girls?
Well, duh! I was trying to fit in, prove I was a real guy! See, I wasn’t
fitting in. I’m skinny, not athletic, not crazy about sports. I’ve got
these “cute” puppy dog looks. Boys were calling me names, like faggot.
At that age, everybody is calling everybody faggot, but a voice inside
me was saying, maybe they’re right.
I knew they were
right, but I was trying to convince them, and maybe myself, that I was
a real man. If I could just do that, then I figured I’d get past this
queer phase, I’d get interested in girls like all the other boys, and
no one would be the wiser.
Really, I was a mess. I felt like a
phony and a shit. I was scared and moody all the time. I didn’t like
myself at all. I didn’t want to get caught, but then I did want
to get caught because that way everyone would know what a horny stud I
was. Actually, I was a nervous wreck. (I’ve figured out since then that
a lot of the straight boys that age were also nervous wrecks!)
Y’know, up until the age of 10 or so, I was a happy kid. Almost too
nice. People asked whether I ever got into mischief! I made up for lost
time.
Q. How did things change for you when you entered the PDP and started taking Puericil/PB?
To
look at me, you wouldn’t see much difference. I had pubes already, like
I said, and they told me they would fall out in about a week, but I
remember it took much longer. I’m glad it did. At first I thought it
might not happen at all. Then gradually I noticed the bush was becoming
thinner and the remaining hairs were finer and lighter in color, almost
blond. It took so long that people forgot I ever had a bush, but I got
this weird pleasure out of watching myself go bald down there! Aside
from the pubes, I didn’t have any body hair to lose unless you count
peach fuzz, which also disappeared.
Of course I stopped
growing too. Because they checked my height and weight regularly, I can
say that right up to today, there’s been almost no change since I
started on Puericil/PB. That physical effect must have happened almost
immediate, but my lagging behind other boys wouldn’t have been
noticeable for at least a few months. Most of the boys in my class were
having a growth spurt, but many boys were late bloomers, so I wasn’t
very obvious.
Plus, physically, when I started on Puericil/PB,
I was right in the middle in almost everything, height, weight, and the
family jewels. Five feet tall, 100 pounds, 2 inches soft, balls
starting to descend. Those are all average for a 12-year old boy. At
13, I was a little on the small side. At 14, I was definitely small, it
was obvious to anyone. At 15, my measurements are still the same, but I
must be in the smallest 10% or even lower.
Overall, I was a good 12 months into the PDP before my overall appearance really shouted Puericil Boy.
Q. And you are happy with your appearance?
Totally! I think this is the real me. My looks and personality go together. A cute little imp who loves to cuddle and have fun.
Q. You mentioned that your physical changes were slow and not immediately obvious. What about your outlook and your behavior?
My
attitude changed immediately, and I mean like overnight. I guess you
could say I was ready. I felt like I’d been running towards a cliff,
and someone reached out and stopped me in the nick of time.
Even as the needle went into my arm, I felt a new calm. I no longer was
fearful, I no longer had to hide. I knew I was being punished, but
dreading the possibility of punishment and exposure was much worse than
facing them squarely.
OK, I know the hormones were still in my
body. They told me it would take weeks before the hormones dropped to
the old level, I mean the level before puberty. But the drug doesn’t
only affect the production of hormones, it blocks them somehow.
Q. The receptor cells stop responding to the hormones.
Thank you, that’s it. Or maybe I was just ready to change. Whatever,
the buzzing in my head stopped. My puberty had affected me like a
disease, and I was starting to get well.
And my behavior?
Well, the first thing that happened was that for the first time I
started to get along with girls. I was making friends with them, while
most boys were giving me a hard time, making fun of me.
Part
of the PFP is apologizing to the people we’d bullied or harrassed.
There were a few girls, I had either tried to touch them or flipped up
their skirts, and I had to apologize. I started to cry, which was
something else I did a lot more of after I was on the drug. Some girls
thought I was putting on an act, but I wasn’t, I was sorry I’d done
these mean, dumb things, and I said so. The girls all saw I was sincere.
After that, a couple girls told me they’d always thought I’d been
trying to do ‘guy’ things just to fit in but wasn’t really like that.
They were my classmates, they knew I was a nice enough boy until when I
was 11 or so. Best of all, they kinda let on that it would be just fine
with them if I were bi or even gay. They thought I was sweet and
gentle, and that’s what they most liked in a boy, although it didn’t
hurt that I was cute too!
Well, then I cried some more. I told
them I was going to be that nice boy from now on, and yes, maybe I was
bi [every gay boy starts by claiming to be bi!], but I wanted to be
friends with anyone who’d let me. They were popular girls, and they
started to have lunch with me and even invite me to their parties. I
learned to dance, real partner dancing like the mamba and swing. I also
learned that girls are always looking for a boy who can “lead.” And for
a boy they can hug without him assuming they want to go to bed with
them. And I felt the same way! It was with girls that I first got
comfortable with hugging and kissing and cuddling. I think I was
getting more physical contact with girls than most of the straight boys
were. Funny, huh? From talking to other gay boys, I found out that my
experience was fairly common.
I can’t say the PDP taught me
this stuff, but without the PDP, I was really afraid of girls. After I
went on Puericil/PB, I began to see how much more mature were most
girls my age compared to most boys. Certainly compared to me! They were
also taller than most boys the same age, but like I said, a boy who can
“lead” has it made! Didn’t Gene Kelly and Fred Astaire wear elevator
shoes?
Along with this non-sexual physical intimacy, one of
the girls very tactfully, very sensitively opened me up on the subject
of gayness. I told her I was scared and unsure of myself. I was afraid
of rejection, but I was also afraid of acceptance! I felt turned on by
some boys, but what did it mean to be gay, act gay? I was clueless. And
she said there are other boys like you, nice boys, and they’re here in
this school. Just connect! I asked who they were. She said I should try
being friendly to boys, not just to girls. You’ll find out soon enough!
[Long pause]
Q. You’re going to make me ask?
Just teasing! Sure enough, I got to talking to two boys who were definitely not
part of the crowd I was running with back when I tried to plant a
camera in the girls’ locker room. These boys were quiet and smart and
cute. I had thought that I liked jocks, and I still have a taste for
hunky kids who aren’t jerks, but almost at once these two boys and I
started hanging out. The more I saw them, the more I liked them in
every way. They were funny without being nasty, they were interested in
all kinds of stuff, and they made no secret that their interests
included other boys. I’d been in gym class with them before, without
really looking at them. Now I looked, and the attraction sizzled for
me. Ta da! They admitted they had the hots for me too.
I
thought the two of them were about the best-looking guys in our class.
We were all the same age just about, not more than 4 or 5 months
difference, both of them a little older than me. So at 12 and a few
months, Scott (the oldest) was dark-haired, taller, and had a bit more
body hair than I did, but he had a really small dick, even for his age. That’s when I discovered that I love really small
dicks! Cole was a month older than me, a classic blond hair/blue-eyed
boy. Cole lagged behind both of us physically. He was shorter; his dick
was average, like mine, but pubeless. That’s when I discovered my
passion for hairless bodies!
Q. So you’re a ginger hanging
out with a blond and a brunet; you boys make quite a colorful picture!
I saw the polo shirt ad that featured the three of you.
I
guess the ad agency also thought we were cute. After the shoot, the
three of us stripped off and dove into the pool. Most of the camera
crew joined us. That was a fun day! When we showered afterwards, I was
so turned on I was shaking. Back at Scott’s house, we had a three-way
that woke up the dead.
Q, Then you had a setback, didn’t you?
The Great Pot Bust, you mean? I suppose it was
a setback, and it was a factor in extending my time in the PDP, but
it’s really silly. Scott’s brother brought back some weed from college
over the winter holiday. He gave Scott a couple of joints; Scott
brought one to school. To show you how naive we were, we lit up in an
unlocked supply closet during lunch hour. I’m sure only about 500
people could smell us smoking the weed.
No one takes pot that
seriously any more, but you’re not supposed to indulge on campus.
Fortunately we weren’t trying to push the stuff, and if it had been
Scott and Cole by themselves, they would probably have gotten only a
slap on the wrist. But the admin couldn’t very well ignore Scott and
Cole while punishing me, so guess what? Scott and Cole got slammed into
the PDP to keep me company. We were all of us 13 years old then.
Should I go on? It gets a bit smutty after this!
Q.
Among other things, we hope to hear about the impact of Puericil/PB on
the sexual development of PDP participants, so please continue.
I
hope you won’t be disappointed, there aren’t any surprises here. Three
gay boys who were already crazy about each other continue to have fun,
thank you very much!
It was only a few weeks after we became friends, and before the Great Pot Bust, when Scott announced that he wasn’t going to have pubes until we all had pubes. He
borrowed this electronic tweezer thingie that his mother used on her
legs, and while Cole and I looked on, Scott ran the thingie over his
crotch and balls. In a couple of minutes, he was bald down there. He
said it was better than shaving or Nair. Less irritation and NO
stubble. He was right about the stubble, he looked like he’d never
grown hair down there at all!
Cole then grabbed the tweezer thingie and ran it over any place on Scott’s body that had any sign of hair or fuzz. Then we tackled Cole. He had nothing to show but wispies, but we were merciless, we did away with them.
Afterwards, we continued our weekly routine with the tweezer thingie.
It seemed to make Scott’s pubes grow thinner and thinner, even before
he and Cole joined me as Puericil Boys. So all three of us were already
as bare as babes, and loving it. Now that Scott’s tiny peepee was
exposed to the fresh air, he could easily prove that he was the King of
Small Cocks. When he was soft, and it was a cool day, he had just about
an inch. Adorable!
Maybe this next development will
surprise you. Older, bigger guys became more and more interested in us.
Obviously we were young and appeared younger, we had “twink” looks.
Then we turned 14, then 15, without growing at all. We really were cute
little munchkins, and we all had real studs wooing us! These were guys
who fit the mould of what a handsome high school kid should look
like—tall, masculine, athletic. Most of them were even dating girls
while pursuing a side dish of boy flesh.
Many of them acted
like they were God’s gift, we should let them fuck us and be grateful.
We told them to go fuck themselves. A few of them were genuinely nice,
or at least asked politely, and then we’d give it some thought.
Among ourselves, the sex was (and is) mostly oral. That was satisfying,
and so was finger-fucking. But occasionally one or the other of us
fancied a big cock up his ass. Problem was, most of these “studs” were
clueless about giving pleasure to the person they were fucking. Made us
wonder why girls put up with this slam-bam-thank-you-mam crap. So we
became sex educators!
The deal was, we wouldn’t put out for a guy unless he agreed to let us explore his
butt. We taught our tricks about the prostate and the pleasure of
having it gently massaged (unlike the jab they got in the doctor’s
office). We were always able to get the guy hard by fingering him, then
continue fingering while pleasuring his cock until he came. You should
have heard the gasps and moans, and the tearful prayers that we never
ever tell ANYONE about what happened. But we had repeaters! One varsity
football player, who was actually a sweet guy as dickheads go, came
back three times, then agreed to let us use a strap-on. When he
graduated, he cried.
But mostly we much prefer sex with each other. We know each other’s g-spots. We love our looks. We like
each other. We’re really just like boys in their early tween years,
before zits and body hair and body odor mess things up. Most boys in
those early tween years are already very interested in sex. Most of them are already
jerking off to dry orgasms. For me and Scott and Cole, Puericil/PB just
extended into high school the physical appearance of those early tween
years.
They say we are immature socially. BS! With counseling
and help from Puericil/PB, I’ve overcome the silly antics of my
adolescence. I’m at least average in school, and I get along with
everybody. How is that not mature? As for Scott and Cole,
they’ve always been well-adjusted kids. We’re thriving with
Puericil/PB, and I can’t see any gain from springing puberty on us at
this late date.
Comment on Case Study No. 2:
Opinion is sharply divided regarding the case of George L. All agree
that he has improved overall during the Puericil Disciplinary Program.
Disagreement concerns the extent of the improvement, and the desire of
George (and his friends Scott and Cole) to continue their Puericil/PB
regimen indefinitely. The dividing line is roughly between [1] those
experts who hold to the original view of Puericil as punitive, and [2]
the growing number of experts who see Puericil as both rehabilitative
and prophylactic. We start by summarizing the analysis of those experts
who take the original view.
Everyone questions George’s
self-assessment. Their teachers agree that George, Scott, and Cole are
much above average in intelligence. The fact that all three are
satisfied with average academic achievement shows poor judgment and a
strong tendency to “goof off.”
It is true they are very
popular. They have made themselves the “Clown Princesses” of their
school. Their openness has inspired an unusually tolerant attitude
toward the LGBTQ community among their fellow students. Many students,
and even teachers, enjoy their humor, calling it “refreshing.”
For example, they join the school marching band, following behind with
their own instruments—a wheelbarrow, a frying pan, and a seat cushion.
Wearing wigs and tight jeans, they form their own cheer-leading
section. They have made a music video that has been a sensation on the
Internet. Wearing full drag, and singing to the tune of “This Girl Is
on Fire,” they sing and dance their own version, “This Boy Is a
Bottom.” They recruited much of the football team to portray the
shame-faced “bottoms.”
Not everyone is delighted, however. The
actual marching band and cheerleaders are also performers. They want to
play their music and do their routines without being upstaged. Many
have privately expressed frustration over what they feel is ridicule.
Even members of the LGBTQ community complain about pressure to be
flamboyant. George seems unaware of these hurt feelings, or he may be
aware but indifferent.
In short, some experts believe strongly
that George has not achieved the maturity of outlook that is the goal
of the PDP. He continues to prioritize fun and games over his
responsibilities. A Puericil Boy, like other youths, must prepare
himself for adulthood. These experts say that growing older without
growing up is not a satisfactory outcome.
Those experts who
emphasize the rehabilitative and prophylactic aspects of Puericil
treatment make similar observations but draw different conclusions.
Boys, they say, mature at different rates. Enrollment in the PDP
doesn’t change this fact. If a boy makes progress in the PDP, he
shouldn’t be considered a failure merely because he lacks the emotional
maturity of some of his age peers. Implicit in these experts’ argument
is that the then-current end point for a boy’s participation in the PDP
[age 16 or graduation from middle school, whichever comes first] is
unduly constraining.
These experts also object to the
dismissive view of the “clowning” by George, Scott, and Cole. They
consider the clowning to reveal real talent for comedy and satire.
Unlike some high school pranks [including some of George’s before he
started on Puericil/PB], the clowning did not disrupt classes and was
never cruel. They concede that some people might feel hurt by the
jokes, but they maintain that comedy by its nature almost always
offends somebody. Notably, the boys never got “personal;” they didn’t
direct their jokes against an individual student or teacher.
Another interesting difference in expert opinion regards the
pot-smoking incident. The experts who view the PDP as essentially
punitive disagree with the enrollment of Scott and Cole in the PDP;
they consider the enrollment disproportionate to the misconduct and
inappropriate. Other experts agree that enrollment considered as punishment was disproportionate to the offense, but they support enrollment as a prophylactic measure.
There was general satisfaction with George’s robust sexual development.
Before official adoption of the PDP, some opponents expressed concern
that Puericil/PB would essentially neuter the individuals who received
the treatment. The experience of virtually ALL of the boys in the PDP
is to the contrary. In particular, those boys who were enrolled as a
consequence of sexual misconduct did not lose their sexual energies but
instead re-focused those energies in socially acceptable ways.
Similarly, psychiatric evaluation of George has tended to confirm his
self-perception that he was “gay all along.” (However, as we will see
in later case studies, the impact of Puericil on boys’ sexual
development continues to be somewhat controversial.)
Finally,
we note that George, Scott, and Cole are now seniors in high school,
and they continue on Puericil/PB. The PDP administrators granted a
petition by the three boys, supported both by the boys’ parents and
their teachers, for continuation of the PDP in their case. The
continuation order marked the first noteworthy success for the
prophylactic approach.
Case Study No. 3: Danny T
Q. When did you begin taking Puericil/PB? How long did you take it?
I was pretty close to 14, and I stopped about 18 months later, when I started M-to-F transitioning.
Q. We’ll get to your transition, but first please tell us how you came to be in the PDP.
I
was an ice hockey player. Big for my age, not a fast skater, so I was a
defenseman. If you know the sport, you know that there’s a lot of body
contact, even in the junior league. So I used my size a lot, especially
when digging the puck out of corners. Up against the boards going after
the puck, gloves and elbows and knees and sticks are flying. There’s
accidental contact and some that’s not so accidental, and tempers are
lost real easy. It’s that kind of game.
So I’m getting pissed
off with this one forward, who is getting pissed off with me. We both
get warned. A few minutes later, they get a 3-on-2 rush, this forward
has a step on me and I see he’s going to get around me. If they manage
to feed him the puck, he’ll have a clear shot on goal. Not to say that
he won’t blow it, but I’ll look bad; plus I hate his guts. So I reach
out with my stick and pull his skates out from under him as he sails by
me.
Not only is this dirty play, but it’s obvious; no way the
ref is gonna miss it. And it’s dangerous. A guy skating at full
speed—faster than he can run—and suddenly loses traction, there’s nothing
he can do to steer or stop, he’s gonna hit the boards, maybe head
first. Of course, we’re all wearing helmets and other protective gear,
but a guy hitting the boards head first could break his neck. This guy
didn’t do that, but he broke his arm and dislocated his shoulder. The
collision and the snap could be heard all over the arena.
The
referee gives me a major penalty for tripping with resulting injury, a
misconduct for roughing, and a game misconduct for intent to injure.
Then I’m banished for the season after they reviewed the video of the
trip. And that’s just the discipline handed out by the league.
It was a close thing for me that I wasn’t charged with a criminal
offense, but the video also revealed that the forward had gotten away
with elbowing and cross-checking me a few minutes earlier in the game.
If they charged me, they might have to charge the forward. In any case,
they decided there was enough provocation by the other guy that I
should be cut some slack. So into the PDP I go.
Q. When you started in the Puericil Disciplinary Program, you were quite muscular?
Yeah, for a guy just shy of 14, I was muscular. As I said, I was fairly
tall, about 5'8", and about 160 pounds. I thought I was good-looking.
Anyway, I'm blond, with those Nordic looks that excite a lot of people.
I thought I was a stud, and it seemed that there were a lot of folks
who enjoyed looking at me. Boys, girls, teachers. I do have a nice
smile!
Q. How were you doing in school?
I did
OK. Really, I was planning on getting an athletic scholarship to state
college, and for that purpose, a B average was fine. I didn’t see any
reason to work harder at that point, and I was doing a lot of sports,
so there wasn’t a lot of study time available. I could have done
better, and I know some teachers said I was underachieving,
academically. Whatever!
The PDP upset my plans.
Q. You are referring to your suspension from team sports during the PDP?
More
than that. I knew that as long as I was on Puericil/PB, I wouldn't grow
much, and my muscular development would stop. Most likely, without
exercise, I would lose a lot of the muscle that I already had. For
someone who wanted to be an athlete, well, being on Puericil/PB at 14
and 15 was just about the worst thing that could happen.
For
the typical boy athlete, those are crucial years for learning, growing,
training, you name it. That athlete goes from being a fairy
uncoordinated kid, like I was, to a young man with most of the power
and the skill set that he will ever have. Even for a late-developing
kid, he’s got to lay the foundation for the athlete he hopes to become.
There was a chance, in theory, that I would complete my time in the PDP
in a few months. I thought my chances were slim to none. I’d been a
cocky kid, something of a wise ass. With my blond hair and biceps, I
thought I was hot stuff. So, some of the school admin kinda had it in
for me. My teachers and coaches knew there was another side to me, but
then that horrible, stupid trip dried up whatever sympathy I might have
gotten.
Yeah, that trip was a life-changer, and to my own great surprise, for the better.
Q. Describe your early days on Puericil/PB.
The
changes were dramatic, even in the first week. I had a big bush of
pubes and a little bit of hair in my armpits. It started to fall out
the evening of my first shot. Somehow, I wasn’t upset, only curious.
Before that shot, I was shaking with nerves and kicking myself for my
stupidity. Within an hour, I calmed down. I cried, but it wasn’t
hysterical crying. It was more a sob, like a kid who’s just
disappointed his parents or a teacher he really liked. I’ve talked with
other boys from the PDP, and they describe having the same emotional
reaction. Suddenly you’re a little boy who’s really REALLY in need of a
hug!
I found myself telling my parents that I loved them, and
I hoped they still loved me, and I was so relieved when they said yes,
they did, and then I cried some more. Before the week was over, I was
calling them Mommy and Daddy. I remember my father acting a little
embarrassed at first, but my mother was delighted. She started calling
me honey and sweetheart, and even my father called me sweetie now and
then when we were at home. I guess my need for comforting was already
making me seem younger, not the teenage boy anymore.
A few
days later, Daddy fetched Mr Ted down from the attic. Mr Ted had been
banished there, over my strong objections, when I was 7 or 8. I’m sure
you’ve guessed that Mr Ted is my teddy bear. I was SO happy to have him
again, I gave Daddy a kiss on the cheek, and Daddy gave me a hug. As
the saying goes, a hug is worth a thousand words.
Q. That’s a saying?
If
it isn’t, it oughta be. But I’m getting ahead of myself. On Day 2 of my
time in the PDP, my best friend Paul came to see me after school. I
suppose his visit changed my life. Both our lives.
About Paul.
He’s also an athlete, better than I ever was. His sport is water polo.
It’s much like ice hockey, actually. Similar strategy, lots of physical
contact, but Paul has a swimmer’s body. Muscular but lean; I was
muscular back then but bulky.
Paul is a couple months older
than me, and he’s my height. What he lacked was nearly any sign of
puberty. His skin was free of acne. He didn’t shave—he never had to. He
had a few wispies at either side of his cock, but there wasn’t enough
of them to join at the middle. Of course as a swimmer he could have
shaved even those wispies, and no one would have been surprised. His
explanation was that he didn’t own a razor back then, didn’t know how
to shave, and was afraid to practice on such a sensitive area!
One more thing about Paul, his cock was super-thin. I don’t know how
long it was. Every boy in the boy sex stories seems to measure his cock
daily, but somehow we never did. I do know that his erect cock stayed
thin and was just a bit longer than my fairly average cock when I was soft. Judging from what was on display in the showers, Paul was quite small. I can say I know Paul’s cock very well.
Paul and I have been best friends since forever. Like, since
kindergarten. We were in school together, we were in boy scouts
together. We had sleepovers. His folks knew and liked me; my folks were
crazy about Paul. I’m not sure anybody disliked Paul. He played sports
and games, but was the same person win or lose. He had feelings and
showed them, so it’s not like he was a Goody-Two-Shoes. He had a gentle
sense of humor. And he was [still is] very good-looking, not like a
model, like a real person.
Paul and I know each other’s
bodies. We’d been exploring each other all along, as kids do. When we
discovered orgasm, we discovered it together, probably at age 10, or
even earlier. We jacked each other off; we tasted each other’s first
wet cum and liked it. Up until 12 or 13, we didn’t think anything of
this. Seems like all the boys in middle school were jacking each other
off.
We talked about girls starting when we reached 12 or 13.
We both had some dates; I pretended that I enjoyed myself. God knows
what my dates thought of it, I was so clumsy and tentative. I really
wasn’t interested; that must have been obvious to them. Paul told me
he’d managed to get one girl’s bra off. He likes tits, and he’s so
tender and gentle it must have been nice for both of them. He dated
that girl a couple of times, then … nada.
I had sucked Paul
off once, then repeated it. We both experienced it as something way
better than what we’d done before. I also thought that maybe this was
more significant, that maybe this wasn’t something a straight boy
routinely did to his straight boy friend. Paul said it was great, I
could do it to him whenever I felt like, but he didn’t offer to return
the favor. Before I could talk it over with Paul, I tripped that guy as
he skated past, then I fell into the PDP.
When Paul showed up
on Day 2, I half feared it was to tell me he wouldn’t be my friend any
more because I turned out to be not the kind of person he’d thought I
was. He put that fear to rest without speaking a word; he took me in
his arms as soon as he walked through our front door.
I was in
tears. Soon Paul was too. He told me I was NOT the person who’d tripped
that guy, that person wasn’t the real me. And even if the real me had
messed up big-time, I was still the same person, still his best friend.
“I love you, Champ,” he said. That was the last time he ever called me
Champ. From then on it was Dan or more often Danny.
We sat
down. We were holding hands. “Danny, I have something important to tell
you, that I’ve been wanting to tell you. I’m not sure why, but it seems
right to tell you today. I’m gay.”
I was so choked up with
emotion, it was painful. I felt like I had to let it out or die. “Paul,
I’m not sure whether I’m gay. I am sure that I love you, as a friend and in every other way too.”
We were in my bedroom. The door was closed. I’m sure my parents had a
good idea what games we got up to, and they never seemed to mind, they
gave us our space. Paul opened my fly; I opened his and started to jerk
him off, but he said no and maneuvered us into a 69 position. We both
came in buckets, much too fast. We looked at each other’s face and
started to laugh. Paul licked his cum from my face—“Waste not, want
not”—and I cleaned his face up the same way. We kissed our faces all
over. We did this while we’re still fully clothed, except our flies
were open and our dicks were hanging out.
Paul said something
like, “I see the P-pill hasn’t hurt your performance.” Then he gently
and slowly started to pull my shirt from my jeans, opened the button at
the top of my jeans, freed my shirt, unbuttoned it, slid it off my
shoulders. I kicked my sneakers off, and he yanked my socks off with a
flourish. He kissed my toes and tickled the soles of my feet, then slid
up alongside me and began gently tweaking and teasing and tickling me
all over my torso (nipples, belly button, arm pits) while kissing me on
my neck and collar bone. I was shaking with lust and laughter.
“Your armpits are smooth already. What’s it like down here?” Then Paul
slowly slid my jeans and briefs over my hips, down my legs, off my
feet—and let the last of my clothes drop to the floor. I turned my hips
at the waist and put my right arm over my head. I stretched my body. I
was consciously trying to give Paul access to every inch of me. Yes consciously, deliberately. I was recalling a painting of a curvy nude woman in some sultan’s harem.
The woman in the painting is presenting her butt to the viewer. It is
the ample butt of a mature woman, but I too had an ample butt and
thighs. Every skater develops thunder thighs, that’s where the power of
his stride comes from, but now I was offering myself to Paul, and I
could see and feel his response. His arm snaked down to the cleft in my
buns. His hand played over them, his fingers penetrated the butt crack.
Boys weren’t supposed to let themselves be penetrated like that,
somehow I knew that, but I also knew I wanted Paul to penetrate me, to
take possession of me. I was taking the woman’s role, and I was excited
more than I ever I was before, I could feel the pre-cum dribbling from
my dick.
Paul turned me over from side to side, kissing and
licking me everywhere, telling me my body was lovely. After LOTS of
fingering and caressing, he came back to my cock. “You still have some
pubes,” he said smiling, and it was true. They had thinned, and I had
noticed some patches were almost bald, but … I knew almost
instinctively that the woman in the painting would have had no body
hair, and I wanted my own baldness to be total. I had no whiskers yet,
but my pubes were just WRONG. I wished them gone—between the two of us,
only Paul was entitled to have any body hair.
Paul played with
my dick, collected the oozing pre-cum. Then he rubbed the ooze over my
pubes, and as he rubbed, the remaining pubes seemed to yield. Little by
little, the bald spot grew. Sure, it was the Puericil’s work, but Paul
& I imagined it was his magic touch! He wiped little clumps of
pubes onto the sheets. He tugged on the stragglers. Their resistance
was feeble, they all came out with little bulbs at the end—the roots?
Paul kissed me on the lips and told me to look down. I was now
perfectly, totally pubeless. My darling, my lover had depubed me. I was
grateful. I freely surrendered to him this visible token of my manhood.
I didn’t need the token, didn’t want it…
Yeah, I remember you
said right at the beginning that we’d get to my transition later, but
what I’ve been trying to tell you is that my “transition” started in my
head during that first week in the PDP. In fact, it started with Paul’s
visit on Day 2.
Q. Thank you, that was a powerful
narrative, and I can see from your excitement how much it means to you.
How did things go from there with Paul and others—your families, your
classmates, your teachers?
I was lucky. By this time,
the PLP was well accepted: PLP boys had done bad stuff, but they were
trying to become better persons. There were PLP boys who moped, or
showed a lot of attitude, but most were like me, they just sorta calmed
down. And at least in my own school, there was a feeling that the guy I
tripped had it coming. He didn’t really, and I said so, and people
thought I was a good sport for saying so. Funny how things work out.
The jocks still claimed me as an ex-jock. As for the other kids, I was
friendly, and my cocky attitude was gone. Teachers were happy too.
My grades improved. Still not straight-A, but college material. Paul
was and is Mr Congeniality; any one who hung out with Paul was cool.
My blond looks helped out. Girls looked forward to my weekly nude days,
some boys did too, and to be honest so did I. When I started in the
PDP, my homeroom teacher (who was also my Civics teacher) was still in
his twenties and nice-looking. I tried not to be TOO obvious but I
loved being publicly stripped by him. If this is punishment … please,
Sir, may I have more?
Family? Paul's folks and my own both had
us pegged for gay, long long before we did ourselves. It was a while
before I spoke to my folks about being trans, but I was acting
increasingly like a girl of my age. A little flirty, a little giggly.
Paul was never particularly butch, but soon he was taller than me, and
he was obviously the guy in the couple.
Even now, I feel that
I march to my own drum about who I am sexually. I mean, I'm not at all
sure how far I wanna carry my transition. I know that for me, it has
nothing to do with cross-dressing or wearing make-up. Dame Edna is not
my thing! I love having a curvy body, especially my pert little tits,
but I definitely want to keep my plumbing. As for the two little
marbles next to my dick, well, their fate is uncertain! We'll see how I
feel when I’ve been on HRT a lot longer. It’s not like my balls are
going anywhere.
Actually, some people thought I’d already
started HRT. I noticed some sensitivity in my nipples pretty soon, I’d
say a couple months after my Puericil/PB injections began. Over a
period of a few weeks, my nipples became puffy, and they were so-o-o
sensitive, just mind-boggling! Then I could feel the tissue under the
nipples expanding. It wasn’t pectorals, I was sure of that; I’d begun
losing muscle slowly but steadily. I’d been dreaming of getting tits,
and now I had them!
The doctor explained what was going on at
one of my periodic PDP check-ups. All boys produce the female hormone
in tiny amounts, which is why a boy in early puberty sometimes gets
puffies, until his male hormone production takes over and the puffies
soon disappear. Puericil/PB throws a monkey wrench into that process.
By shutting down the growth hormone, it eventually shuts down the sex
hormones, and it also disrupts the body’s normal response to
testosterone, which is why the body hair falls out, muscles stop
growing, and so on. But Puericil/PB doesn’t affect response to the female
hormone, and what happens for a few boys like me is that as the
testosterone level falls, the small amount of female hormone is able to
stimulate breast growth!
In fact, I actually had an increased
level of female hormone for a long while; maybe I’m just an outlier.
Anyway, I’m not complaining! I was getting girlish curves in many
places, not only my boobs. I didn’t gain weight, I even lost a little,
but my muscle mass dropped dramatically, and my skin got softer. As a
skater, I already had a big tush and thighs. I still do, but now the
flesh is round and squishy, not bands of hard muscle.
Over the
summer, I got slowly but steadily more curvacious. My blond hair grew
fast and was now shoulder-length. I didn’t want to dress as a girl,
which meant that when I showed up at school in the fall, my girly parts
were REALLY bulging.
I got a new homeroom teacher. Ms Beatrice
Bixbee, old Double B. Ms Bixbee is almost 6 feet tall in flats. She had
been a college athlete. A competitive weightlifter, no less! She is
built like a refrigerator. We all assumed that she’s a dyke, but
whatever her personal life is, she leaves it at home. At school, Double
B is all business. She coaches women's sports, but she's not a gym
teacher, she teaches Biology and Sex Ed. She’s a good, no-nonsense
teacher, and teaching those subjects in middle school, she has to be no-nonsense. And this was the person now in charge of stripping me naked for my weekly nude days!
My Civics teacher had always been uncomfortable when stripping me; he
kept his eyes away from me as much as possible. Not Double B, however.
She looked me right in the eye the whole time! You know what femdom is,
right? Here is this big powerful woman, strong enough to pick me up and
toss me over her shoulder, and she's holding my gaze every second (or
as much as possible) as she undresses me one item at a time.
I
was always quivering with Ms Bixbee, the experience was absolutely
electric. I did what I could to draw it out. I wore complex outfits
with a vest, or even better a sweater that Ms Bixbee had to pull over
my head. I loved the feel of the sweater coming off, then tossing my
hair after it was off. Then getting down to my T-shirt, with my nipples
poking out, and feeling the T-shirt as it slid over my arms, and having
my nice new breasts exposed to view. Soon my slacks were sliding down
my legs, and finally Ms Bixbee’s fingers were in the waistband of my
silk panties (the one feminine item I couldn’t resist). Slipping my
panties to the floor and lifting my feet one at a time to remove my
panties completely. Exposing my hairless little peepee and balls, which
I thought had shrunk some for the same reason my breasts had grown.
Double B went by her work quietly, her face a complete deadpan. I
so-o-o wanted her to touch me! One day I couldn’t resist; as she
lowered my panties, I bent slightly at the waist and swiveled my hips
so that my tush contacted her hands and her fingers brushed my bum
crack. I heard some titters from the class. Ms Bixbee shut that down at
once. "None of that, Dan!" The room became quiet, and I hung my head.
After school, I came by to apologize to Ms Bixbee. I had to confess
that I got a lot of pleasure from having her undressed me. Double B
allowed a little smile to cross her face. "Thank you, Danny. Feel free
to come by again and talk about it, after you turn 18."
Believe it or not, it was only then that I realized what a dangerous
game I’d been playing, that I could get both of us into serious
trouble. The next day came the announcement that, in light of my
"medical condition," my weekly nude days were canceled.
I'm
not sure whether Ms Bixbee had anything to do with the announcement.
Rocket science was not required to realize the effect I was having on
the school. Here I was, a dishy blonde walking from class to class,
either stark naked or positively busting out of my clothes. There were
traffic jams in the hallways; teachers stood at the doors of their
classrooms to get a peek. I’d guess this was not the intent of the PDP.
Q. Let’s not forget your meeting with the boy you injured. I assume you two did meet?
I
met with the boy—Doug’s his name—pretty soon after I was placed in the
PDP. His whole right arm was immobilized. He told me the arm didn’t
really start to hurt until they had set it and popped the shoulder back
into the joint. Then he didn’t sleep for two nights, even with the
pain-killer. But he wanted to see me too, so after a few more days, and
they had backed off the pain-killer, I came to his house.
His
mom sent me to Doug’s bedroom. He was in his pajamas. First time I got
a good look at him, without the hockey pads and helmet. He was
nice-looking. His brown hair was lush and full and flopped boyishly
over his forehead. His complexion was fresh and pink. Downright
wholesome, which is not typical for jocks. He waited for me to talk.
I told him I had no excuses. I did something that was way over the
line. I added that I was a crap hockey player, trying to make up for
lack of skill by cheap, tough-guy antics.
Doug looked
surprised. He probably thought I would come up with some sorry-ass
explanation, like I’d acted on impulse or I’d slipped. When I instead
took full responsibility, he kinda pulled in his horns. He said the
referee should take some of the blame. If the ref had handed out
penalties as soon as the rough-housing started, things might have
cooled off.
I thanked Doug for being decent about it, but
look, the ref was not the guy who tripped him. And I said that if ever
there was anything I could for him, he only had to ask.
Doug
grinned. “Actually, there is a favor you could do me. See, I depend on
my right arm to handle something besides a hockey puck.” I looked at
his pajama bottoms. I could see what he meant.
“Yeah, Doug, I
can definitely help with that. In fact, if you promise not to freak
out, I can do you better than a wank.” I reached down and yanked the
bottoms below his knees, then pushed his shirt well up to get a good
look at his mid-section. I liked what I saw. His dick was average or a
bit more. He had a pubic bush that fitted tightly over his dick. No
“treasure trail,” no hair on his balls or thighs. I took him in my
mouth, and I could see this was new to him. I tried to draw out the
process, but he’d gone without for too long, he was on a hair trigger.
He thanked me, said it was fantastic. I said he didn’t yet know what
fantastic was. We both relaxed, we chatted and joked and got
comfortable with each other, and then he was ready for another go. This
time I was careful to lick all around his dick. I got his balls in my
mouth; I kissed his belly up to his navel; I pushed up his pajama top
and licked his nipples. He was gasping the whole time. I could almost
see him thinking, wow, what have I been missing?
Then I went
down below, got between his balls and butt crack, then into his butt
crack, just a little, before he clenched. Not his thing, he said;
thanks anyway. What a shame—his butt was still hairless, and his butt
cheeks were as pink as his face. When I finally got his dick back in
mouth, he came almost as quickly as the first time.
Q. I think we get the general idea. Were there any further developments between you and Doug on the personal level?
Not
really. I came back to Doug’s house 2-3 more times. The sex was OK for
me, better than OK for Doug, but he was always emphatic about being
totally straight. Finally, he let me rim him and stick a finger up
his butt to massage his prostate, but he made me swear to tell no one.
So now, you have to swear to tell no one! Anyway, when Doug got the cast off, he cast me off too, which was fine with me.
Comment on Case Study No. 3:
The
Puericil Disciplinary Program does not discriminate on the basis of
sexual preference, nor does it concern itself with sexual behavior, so
long as a boy does not force sexual attentions on an unwilling partner.
However, where a boy imposes himself (through harassment or physical
compulsion), placement of the boy in the PDP may be appropriate, so
long as the behavior does not rise to the level of criminal misconduct.
Here, Danny T’s bodily contact with Ms Bixbee may be considered
borderline harassment, which would have extended his time in the PDP.
Ms Bixbee herself reported the incident, but she also urged that under
the circumstances, no action be taken against him. [“The boy did take ‘no’ for answer.”] The administrator also adopted Ms Bixbee’s recommendation to cancel Danny’s nude days.
There is also a broader question, prompted by the experience of Danny T
as well as George L and others who have been through the PDP: Why do
many of these boys emerge over the course of the PDP as gay,
transexual, or otherwise non-binary? Does Puericil/PB affect boys’
sexuality, resulting in unexpectedly high rates of sexual
nonconformity? While the question is still being studied, the evidence
to date suggests that Puericil in any form does not have any causal
effect on sexual preference.
Despite reported instances of
genetic boys identifying as girls from a very early age, pre-pubertal
boys are overwhelmingly conventional when questioned about their
self-perceived gender and sexuality. At about age 10 or thereabouts,
these questions take on more immediacy. Boys begin to explore sexual
sensations by themselves. During the “tween” years (10-15), they
commonly also play sexual games with other boys, which may or may not
affect their self-image as “straight” in their orientation.
Some boys decide that they are actually “gay” even before they reach
puberty. However, the onset of puberty is generally the trigger point
for boys who question the gay/straight duality and come to identify as
something else, not fitting within either category. What this
non-binary “something” might be is often hard to decide. Choices
include transgenderism, bisexuality, and androgyny, to name a few.
As a residual category, “non-binary” is a welcome simplification for
the statistician, but it is anything but simple for the boy trying to
find his real self. In his tween years, he is still learning about his
feelings and attractions while dealing with social and familial
pressures.
But to return to the issue we raised earlier, i.e.,
Puericil’s possible effect on boys’ sexuality, the PDP population is
made up entirely of boys between the ages of 10 and 15, which is
precisely the age group in which large numbers of boys begin to think
of themselves as gay or non-binary. It should come as no surprise,
therefore, if the prevalence of sexual non-conformity seems higher in
this specific age group than among the general population of younger or
older males.
If Puericil itself does not “cause” sexual non-conformity, there are
factors that might induce PDP boys to to be more analytical and
introspective than is commonly the case among their peers. They must
critically examine their prior conduct, and not only the specific bad
conduct that landed them in the program. Also, the puberty blocker is
universally reported to have a strongly calming influence. (The
experience of George L and Danny T is typical in this regard.) By
reducing boys’ anxieties, the boys may be able to think more clearly
and objectively about their sexuality, with less concern about social
pressures. These factors do seem to play a part in the surprisingly
quick transformation of boys like George L and Danny T from
“straight-acting” to open non-conformity.
Critics of
Puericil/PB, and of the PDP in general, seem to regard the drug as
capable of turning treated boys into male adolescent versions of the
Stepford Wives. However, all of the boys are studied over the entire
course of the program, and they seem as diverse at the end of the
program as when they started. These critics either are unaware or
flatly deny that ways of being “gay” or “non-binary” are at least as
broad as ways of being “straight.” This case study exemplifies the
unpredictability of non-binary expression.
Danny T now
strongly identifies as M-to-F transexual, but he does not fit any
stereotype. His attire is mostly still boyish. He readily switches from
campy to butch or anything in between, as his mood or situation
suggests to him. His relationship with Paul continues to be stable but
non-exclusive. He is attracted to many “types,” including girls on
occasion. He no longer competes in organized sports programs, but he
often plays in “pick-up” games of volleyball or softball. He is not a
perfect kid, but he has become a much happier one.
Case Study No. 4: Terence J
Q. How old were you when you started on Puericil/PB?
Fifteen. Yeah, about two months after I turned 15.
Q. Why were you placed in the Puericil Disciplinary Program?
This and that. Broads mainly.
Q. You mean you molested girls?
I played sex games with a lot of girls in my class. From flirting to fucking and everything in between.
Q. If they were “games” as you say, why did they get you into trouble?
You’re
kidding, right? One girl, her parents walk in on us, and she acts like
she’s resisting me. Or say the girl gets pregnant and makes up a sad
story about how it happened. Or the girl’s a virgin, she starts
bleeding and gets hysterical.
Q. You never used force?
You
think that’s a simple question, don’t you?! A girl and I are making
out, we’re hugging each other. When she tells the story afterwards, I
was holding her by force. I sure as hell wasn’t holding her by force when we started, she was pleased as punch!
Q. Did you never discuss limits with your date?
Sure
we did! I’ll give you an example, what I’m telling you really happened
just like I’m telling it. This girl and I agree: Heavy petting’s OK but
nothing more. She takes off her blouse, unclips her bra; I’m feeling up
her tits. She unzips me, whips out my dick, and is jacking me off. Is
this still just “heavy petting,” nothing more? Feels like more to me!
Look, I get it, I could
have asked whether we weren’t both going over the line. And if we were
crossing the line, how far over? Yeah, I could have asked. I could
probably also have done my math homework while licking her nipples. Get
real! At some point, my hand goes into her panties. She’s had her hand balls-deep into my crotch, but all of a sudden she’s screaming!
Q.
If I hear correctly what you’re saying, you simply had some dates that
ended in a misunderstanding. Did you never think that there was a
pattern to these misunderstandings, or that they seemed to happen
frequently?
I did. It took a while, and I needed
counseling to get there. Actually it was a woman who got the message
across. In most of my dates—well, all of my dates—I reached a point
where I was only listening to my dick. Sometimes, at that point, bad
things happened.
Sometimes, the girl also gets swept up in the
horniness. We can both be at fault for things going sour. You can bet
it’ll be the boy that gets the blame!
I know, it sounds like
I’m still making excuses, but I’m not really. What I’m saying is, we’re
not doing girls any favors by telling them that they are always the
victims. They gotta learn to deal with puberty, just like boys do.
Q. Do you think your size was intimidating?
Sure. It could hardly not be. When I turned 15, I was over 6 feet tall
and close to 200 pounds. My dick was plenty big too, judging from what
I saw in the locker room. I have a deep voice, and I was shaving
already. My crotch and pits had big bushes. Good growth of fuzz on my
arms and legs, too. My male relatives have hairy chests, but I wasn’t
there yet.
Q. Are you proud of your size and your manliness?
No,
how can I take credit? It’s only genes; I just grew. I liked what I saw
in the mirror, though. I always felt I could handle myself. No one ever
tried to push me around. I never felt like I had to prove myself. I
just wanna get my rocks off! Been that way since I was 12.
Q. What has taking Puericil/PB been like for you?
Well, there was the shock of losing the whiskers and body hair. The
hairs were gone in a few days, but then the shock was gone too in just
a few days more. These days, every day and all day, I’m not the only
one, there are lots of naked guys walking around school. It’s not like
my head is gonna explode.
I like my body. I’m a big guy. Lots
of body-builders and other athletes shave their bodies. Hairless bodies
have plenty of sex appeal. If the idea was that I was suddenly going to
be weak and pitiful and ashamed of myself, that idea was way wrong. If anything, I was getting more admiring stares after the body hair disappeared.
I understand that after a few months, a PDP guy seems to lose muscle,
and he definitely hasn’t grown any. Well, hey, I’m 16 already, I’m out
of the program, my body hair is coming back, and I wasn’t in the PDP
long enough for those other effects to be noticeable. I guess I spotted
some loss of muscle tone, but I’m not sure anyone else did. And how
much bigger was I gonna grow anyway?
Calming influence? I
guess. There was some relief from the constant horniness. I was able to
listen to other people for a change, and even hear what they were
saying. Now that I’m off the drug, I feel that the sexual buzz has
returned, although maybe having a break from it has helped me learn
some things. That’s what I hope anyway.
Comment on Case Study No. 4:
This case shows several shortcomings of the Puericil Disciplinary
Program, even after the reformulation of Puericil. Chiefly, the
therapy has limited usefulness for boys who enter the PDP at the upper
end of the target age group (10-15). For a 15-year old, such as Terence
J, there is not enough time for the puberty-blocking and associated
physical effects to have much impact. As we discuss later, a further
reformulation of Puericil has been adopted to address these
shortcomings.
At first glance, the PDP did little for Terence
J during his 10 months on Puericil/PB. At most, he is ambivalent about
his sexual addiction and toxic masculinity. He is stubbornly defensive
about his long record of misconduct.
Terence J is handsome and
intelligent. He comes from a prominent, wealthy family. He gets good
grades with little effort. He is a natural athlete, but he does not
pursue sports. He pursues girls. In school, alone or with another
“stud,” he is constantly chatting up his girl classmates. He has
several “dates” almost every week, and by his own account most of the
dates include some form of sexual activity (although usually stopping
short of intercourse). There have been many allegations that his
conduct during dates is aggressive. The aggression mostly takes the
form of verbal insistence.
His size alone is intimidating.
Some girls report feeling physically constrained. There are no reports
of physical threats or physical violence, and no girl has pressed
criminal charges. These factors seem to matter to Terence J. They may
be material in a court of law if the issue is whether Terence J raped
any of these girls. From the standpoint of the PDP administrators,
however, ALL sexual attentions pressed in an atmosphere of intimidation
are improper. There are signs in the interview that Terence J himself
has gradually come to this realization. Whether and how he will act on
this realization is uncertain.
The complexity of the problem
is also evident when we consider the findings reported by the school
officials, who conducted confidential interviews with sexually active
girls in the school, many of whom had dated Terence J. The report finds
that these girls discussed among themselves which boys were available,
which of the boys were good in bed, and which were easy “lays,” that
is, readily seduced. (These discussions among girls seem much like the
discussions regarding girls that boys were having among themselves!)
Frequently, a girl who had tired of a particular boy would arrange to
“hand him off” to an interested girl. Sometimes, the boy would accept
his dismissal quietly; sometimes, especially if the dating had included
intercourse, a “misunderstanding” would ensue.
What do these interviews say to us? They do not
say that the victims of sexual abuse are somehow to blame. Instead,
they suggest that consent should not be a taboo subject before or
during a date. Moreover, they suggest that discussion of limits should
not be a “turn-off” but rather is one of the keys to a good date (and
good sex, if that’s what the partners decide on).
4. Second Reformulation of Puericil: Testosterone Reversal [Puericil/TR]
The
results of the Puericil Disciplinary Program, when using Puericil
augmented by puberty blocker, were good overall. In particular, for
boys whose age at the start of Puericil/PB treatment was 14 or less,
more than 90% of the boys made remarkable progress: Academic
performance, social behavior, and sexual adjustment all improved. On
the other hand, for boys who entered the PDP much beyond their 14th
birthday, or younger if puberty was well-advanced, the results were
mixed. Improvements generally occurred, but they were not as dramatic,
and sometimes diminished over time. Though rare, a few boys lapsed into
their old patterns after leaving the PDP.
Reviewing these
results, the administrators confirmed the effectiveness of Puericil/PB,
while acknowledging the potential for further improvements. In
particular, the administrators confirmed that the effect of the
original Puericil in desensitizing hair follicles to testosterone was
essential to the PDP strategy.
Despite evidence that many boys
adjusted sooner or later to their lack of body hair, the steady
encroachment of baldness always affected the boys dramatically. Boys
who had grown body hair experienced its loss as a diminution of their
masculinity; boys who had not yet grown body hair fell further behind
their peers, which they likewise experienced as a diminution of
masculinity. In both cases, boys felt weaker, which is very
desirable for the PDP. and they also felt relieved at no longer having
the need (or even ability) to demonstrate their manliness in the locker
room.
Testosterone plays a critical part in the development of
toxic masculinity. The original Puericil attacked one of the first
manifestations of testosterone, i.e., growth of whiskers and body hair.
As reformulated, Puericil indirectly shut down testosterone production
and blocked receptor cells from reacting to residual testosterone.
Could Puericil/PB be further enhanced to combat testosterone effects,
and if so how? There was general agreement that these were the key
issues in reaching those older boys (or boys further into puberty) who
so far had proved relatively resistant to the PDP.
The
“resistant” boys were generally characterized by being taller and more
physically developed, and having further into puberty, compared to
those boys who flourished under the PDP. Moreover, because “resistant”
boys enter the PDP relatively late, Puericil/PB had less time to
counter these characteristics. For example, many of the “resistant”
boys had already grown to adult proportions, so the prevention of
further growth during the PDP would hardly be noticeable. Perhaps as
important, the toxic masculinity from which these boys suffered had
become entrenched, particularly as compared to pre-pubertal boys from
10-13 years of age.
In a series of discussions, a consensus
developed that victory in the fight against toxic masculinity required
a new, two-fold strategy. First, prophylactic administration of
Puericil/PB to at-risk boys should be encouraged, even before
delinquent behavior emerges. Second, further research should be
conducted into the possibility of reversing the effects of testosterone
in those older boys where toxic masculinity is manifest. Fortunately,
science has provided the means for implementing a testosterone-reversal
strategy.
The testosterone-reversal strategy is unrelated to
the slight feminization that sometimes occurs as a side-effect to the
puberty blocker. (This side-effect, as noted and explained in the
case history of Danny T, is due to the temporary predominance of female
hormone.) Some PDP proponents do advocate for forced feminization, at
least in some instances, but forced feminization was deemed excessive
and impractical for most “resistant” boys.
Instead, Puericil
has been again re-formulated to accomplish testosterone reversal
through adaptation of an auto-immune mechanism originally developed
during cancer research. With cancer, the mechanism triggers the body’s
auto-immune response to attack rapidly dividing cells—in other words,
the cancer tumor. With pubescent boys, the mechanism is similar, except
that the auto-immune response is to the body’s newly active
testosterone-producing tissues and to the cell growth prompted by
testosterone.
The difference between the puberty blocker and
testosterone reversal is simply stated. A puberty blocker pauses the
boy’s progress towards adult masculinity—he doesn’t grow or get more
muscles or become hairy. With testosterone reversal, the boy loses
whatever muscle he has developed since puberty, and his genitals
shrink. (In common speech, testosterone reversal is now often referred
to as regression therapy, since the treated boy quickly seems to become
several years younger than his chronological age.)
To be
clear, testosterone reversal does not affect hard tissue. The boy’s
skeletal structure is fixed at whatever stage it has reached when
testosterone reversal treatment is started, and the boy will not lose
height. The deepening of a boy’s voice after puberty is also not
affected. However, all of the boy’s soft tissues are affected to the extent their growth is positively correlated with testosterone level in the boy.
After approval of Puericil/TR, it is the PDP regimen of choice for all
boys entering the program at age 14 or older, and for younger boys who
have started puberty. (Testosterone level is the main indicator for
puberty; additional factors may be considered on an individual basis.)
Other boys entering the PDP (all of whom would be pre-pubescent and
less than 14 years old) receive Puericil/PB. As these other boys become
older, Puericil/PB may be tapered off to allow puberty to begin but
will be supplemented by Puericil/TR to regulate the boy’s rate of
physical maturation.
Clinical Considerations:
Puericil/PB and Puericil/TR are easily tolerated medications. Allergic
reactions, drug interactions, and toxicity are rare, all well below the
level of placebos when administered in double blind testing.
The physical effects of Puericil/PB treatment are fully reversible.
That is, when treatment stops, puberty ensues (or resumes) and follows
its expected course. The same is not true of Puericil/TR treatment.
Because Puericil/TR will cause certain tissues and cell formations to
shrink or disappear altogether, some physical effects of the treatment
will persist, in some cases permanently. The following summary of these
effects assumes 2 to 3 years of treatment, which is typical for
patients receiving this medication.
Among the permanent effects
are those on hair growth. Within two years, Puericil/TR eliminates the
follicles from which body hair and whiskers grow. Thus, the faces and
bodies of these patients will be permanently smooth. On the other hand,
these patients will never suffer from male pattern baldness; they will
retain a full head of hair into old age.
Among the more transitory effects
are those on musculature and fertility, both of which recover to a
considerable extent after treatment stops. These patients may expect to
eventually gain muscles and fertility that would be typical of 15 or
16-year-old boys.
The effects on genital development,
in terms of size and volume, fall between the two extremes. The penis
and testicles, which may become toddler-like during treatment,
generally recover to a modest extent, but in no event do they grow
beyond what might be expected in a pre-pubertal boy of 12. For example,
a final penis size of 2 inches would be considered large, while the
great majority of patients wind up at 1.5 inches or less.
All
of the effects of Puericil/TR treatment may be moderated if treatment
is of shorter duration or at a reduced dosage. Treatment at higher
dosages or of more than four years’ duration is counter-indicated as it
usually results in chemical castration.
In conclusion,
puberty in the human male may best be considered a pathological
condition that affects boys between childhood and adulthood. The
condition may be more or less severe, and some boys get through it with
only mild symptoms. For many boys, it is a nightmare. Fortunately,
Science now has enabled us to go beyond the original aims of the
Puericil Disciplinary Program. The various refinements to Puericil
provide parents, doctors, teachers, and other caregivers with
comprehensive puberty management [CPM] strategies that can be adapted
to fit each boy’s needs and circumstances. The following case studies
illustrate these CPM strategies in action.
Case Study No. 5: Mark M
Note:
Mark M’s story is traumatic. The study sponsor wishes to emphasize that
all persons participating in the study, including Mark M, did so
voluntarily.
Q. How old were you when you started taking taking Puericil/TR?
A few months after I turned 15. It was exactly two weeks after I tried to kill myself.
Q. Please describe the circumstances that led to your enrollment in the PDP.
Oh jeez, I’d have to go back quite a ways. I was what they call an
early bloomer. It about wrecked my life, but there was stuff going
wrong even earlier.
I’m the oldest of three kids. I have a
sister who’s two years younger and a brother who’s three years younger.
I begged my folks for a little brother. Took ‘em a couple tries.
My mom quit her work when I was born, then stayed at home as long as we
were little. We could have afforded day care; I don’t know why she
decided against it. She seemed bored by housekeeping. After we were all
in school, she went back to work.
I was expected to help out
at home, and at first I didn’t mind. I was the oldest, it made sense.
But then my brother and sister never did wanna help out. I did OK in
school, but they were “gifted.” They were in all these classes for the
super-bright, they had special projects, and sometimes they stayed late
at school. I was resentful, although I still got along OK with them,
especially with my little brother Trent, who was fine as long as you
didn’t ask him to mow the lawn or set the table.
I could tell
things were tense between Mom and Dad. She had to cook when she got
home, so it was like she had two jobs. For some reason, she and my
sister (that’s Meg) didn’t get along, and there were times when one or
the other of us would get into mischief or there would be a squabble.
Mom could never handle a situation. She’d arrive home tired, then tell
Dad to discipline us. Some days, he would go to the three kids’
bedrooms in turn. Mostly he applied a hand or a slipper to our bottoms,
rarely a belt, never with our pants down. We were all terrified of him.
Afterwards Mom would feel guilty and play up to us.
Two things
made it worse for me with Dad. First off, I was a pudgy kid. Not a
blimp, but overweight for sure. Dad had been something of an athlete—he
wrestled in college in one of the lighter weight divisions—and he kept
getting on me to lose weight and exercise more. He got more aggravated
when the puppy fat refused to disappear, and I even started to binge on
sweets after puberty started. The other thing was my grades. As my
sister and brother excelled in school, I slacked off. If I couldn’t
compete with them, I wouldn’t try.
I didn’t have a lot of
friends. I wasn’t a jock or a brain or one of the cool kids. I was kind
of a slob. I wanted to fit in with some crowd, and the crowd I fit in
with were misfit boys like myself who hung around, ate snacks, and
talked about cars. I liked cars, we were a two-car family, and Dad
liked cars too. He did his own maintenance, he read car mags, and the
most quality time we ever spent together was under the hood of his
Boxter.
In our state, kids can get their driver’s license at
14. My crowd all were driving as soon as we could pass the test. We
were good drivers, but we drove recklessly. We went for joy rides, we
raced the family Buicks. Somehow, I never had an accident or a ticket,
but I did worse.
See, I was into puberty early. Jacking off at
10, when I had my first pubes. Even when I was 12, the peach fuzz was
turning dark and coarse all over my body. Huge cock, especially
compared to other boys at that age. Shaving at 13. By 15, shaving every
day. I had an early growth spurt, then slowed down. I didn’t add height
after I was 13, when I was 5’6” tall—same height as my father—and
weighed180 lbs, give or take. Except for zits, I looked just like an
adult. Dressed in one of Dad’s suits and wearing one of his hats, I
passed for a man in his 20’s or even 30’s. So I would dress up, go into
a car dealership, and get them to let me test-drive a car. I’d pick out
a BMW or Mercedes, collect some of my gang who’d be waiting a few
blocks away, and go for a spin.
I was dumb enough to go to the
dealership where Dad bought his Boxter. One of the salesman there
realized I wasn’t him. When I got home, Mom and Dad were waiting. I got
an earful, and then Dad beat me like he hadn’t done in years, worse
than he’d ever beaten me. To top it all, I’d just failed a math test
the previous week. Trent came to my room to offer to help me with math.
“Go away, you little shit,” I said to him. He went away in tears.
I hated myself. A couple days later, I was alone at home. I’d stayed
away from school, claiming I had the runs. Mom and Dad were at work. I
drew a hot bath and got in the tub. I slashed my left wrist with a
kitchen knife. Not a deep cut; it hurt too bad, and I was bleeding like
a pig. I gave up, wrapped a towel around my wrist and got myself to an
emergency room.
The ER doctor looked at the wrist and looked
at me. I could feel his contempt. He bandaged me up, then told me that
there were people with real illnesses and real injuries, and he didn’t
have time for my BS. Mom and Dad collected me at the hospital. I
thought they’d be furious, but they weren’t. They were sadder than I’d
ever seen them.
So there! How’s that for making a long story long?
Q. What was it like starting in the PDP?
A
total makeover. Physical, mental. For me, the visible body changes were
slower than the change in mindset. It’s hard to describe. I expected a
big pity party, but that wasn’t it at all. My whole routine changed.
Q. Can you give us some specifics?
I
got a lot of counseling, but it wasn’t “do this/do that.” We talked
over what I wanted to change and how I might make those changes happen.
Also, we talked about what had stopped me from making changes before
everything came crashing down. Doing better in school? Start with
better work habits. More consistency. Keeping up with assignments
rather than binge study at end of term. Nothing heroic, just doable
steps. Lots of small achievements.
Yeah, I wanted to be
healthier and look better, so losing some weight and keeping it off
seemed like a good idea. They told me it would be tough. Start with
small steps. I surprised everybody, including myself. The Puericil
probably helped a lot, but they assured me I did most of it on my own.
See, I had been eating six meals a day. Five of them were dessert; the
sixth was pizza or pasta. Plus snacks. To drink, I mostly had soda pop.
AND I WAS ALWAYS HUNGRY!
I went from that sugary diet to three big meals of meat or eggs or fish plus veggies. No snacks. I drink milk. After each meal, I feel full.
Q. Did you add exercise?
The only thing I added to gym was that now I walk between home and
school, a little over two miles each way, instead of taking the bus.
Doesn’t seem like much, but it turns out to be an extra hour+ of
exercise five days a week. I got to liking it, so I go for walks on the
weekends too. Usually one or more of the family goes with me.
In the first three months, I lost 45 pounds, to 135. I’m still losing a bit, but much more slowly. Now I’m down to 120.
Q. Back to mental changes, what were they like?
I
think every Puericil kid I’ve talked to has felt the same thing that I
did, which is that the mental buzzing quiets down, You’re able to hear
stuff better, concentrate on what people are saying. It’s a very
calming experience, but not at all deadening. Just the opposite.
Still, I was in terrible shape when I started on the PDP. I’d fucked up
SO-O-O badly. When I got home from the hospital after my parents
fetched me from the ER, we just held hands and cried. Mom and Dad
looked at me. They told me they didn’t want me to die. I guess I didn’t
want to die either, but I was scared to live.
At school,
everyone knew I’d tried to kill myself. There was no announcement, but
stuff gets around. People don’t usually have a big slash mark across
one of their wrists. I had no enemies, but I had no real friends. I was
the pudgy kid, a slob, and now a fuck-up. Pity was hard to take—I could
see it in some faces. And I could see the ER doctor’s attitude in a lot
of faces.
My first nude day was even worse than I imagined. I
felt fat, the body hair was coming off in patches. Kids in middle
school have zits on their face; I had them on my chest and back too.
Between my legs was this big ugly shaggy dick.
Most Puericil
boys talk about the intense humiliation of having their naked bodies
stared at. My humiliation was different; it was the humiliation of
having people turn away from my body in disgust.
But at the
end of that first nude day, after my last class, which was biology, the
teacher asked me to stay a few minutes. She was Beatrix Bixbee. Old
DoubleB. A former weightlifter, with a body like a refrigerator.
She asked me how my day had been, and I told her. She said she knew
something about body-shaming. She took my arms and held them so my
wound was obvious. I looked down. I could see on her left wrist a faint
scar, at about the same place as mine. Those people who are shaming
you, she said, have power over you only because you let them. You
always have choices, she said. Choose life.
And I…
Excuse me, gimme a few seconds…
Q. Do you want to stop?
No, no, I want to talk about this…
At that moment, I gave myself permission to live. I was an imperfect
human, and that was OK. At dinner that night, I told my family that I
would work hard to be a better son and brother. We had a group hug,
then I told Trent I wanted to take him up on his offer to help me with
math.
On my next nude day, I was slick as a porpoise. Whiskers
and body hair all gone; my acne had cleared up entirely. Each nude day
after that, my weight loss was more and more obvious.
I was
turning in my homework on time, I participated in class, I aced some
tests. The chip fell off my shoulder. Kids were including me in groups,
then girls and boys approached me singly, and they weren’t the doofuses
that I used to hang out with.
At home, I was starting to cook
some meals myself, and everyone was pitching in to help. My tutorials
with Trent were a gas. I did learn some math, but as I got caught up
with class, we mostly spent an hour yakking and giggling. There was a
time when we used to be best friends, in between our quarrels. Now, we
didn’t find much to quarrel about. Sometimes we joined Dad under the
hood of his Boxter.
Q. Sounds Nice! Any dating?
You
know, there had never been any dating. Before the PDP, my sex life
consisted of solitary wanking and a few mutual jack-offs. That changed.
I liked the way I was looking. My complexion was like, you know,
pre-adolescent. Peaches and cream. My body was nice, slim but not
scrawny. My dick was not huge but still average. I had a lot to smile
about.
My sister Meg’s friends, who are a year younger than
me, saw me at home and told her they thought I was hot. Gradually, I
realized that girls my own age were coming on to me. Yup, there were
dates. I was tentative, but the girls were eager. They’d heard that
Puericil boys shot blanks. I thought they were probably right; I saw
that my cum was increasingly clear and watery. I soon lost my
virginity, and I was an easy lay. Pretty much any girl that wanted me
could have me.
And pretty much any boy could have me too. I
wasn’t too surprised at this: I’d found myself attracted to lots of
boys at the “Y” and in the gym at school. I wasn’t particular; I liked
a nice face and a smooth body. I also preferred small dicks, I guess
because I thought my big one was so ugly. I hadn’t done much about this
attraction; certainly I hadn’t talked to anyone about it, and I didn’t
consider myself gay. I figured that jacking off with another boy was
what most boys were doing in early puberty. It didn’t mean anything.
Then I myself became a boy with a nice face and a smooth body and a
dick that was becoming boy-sized. In the showers after gym, guys were
copping a feel, so I let my hand wander too. We’d get to chatting as we
dressed. One or another of us would have a house to himself after
school. Two of us, sometimes more, would go over for fucking and
sucking. Nothing romantic, just good dirty fun.
At home,
things returned to something like normal, instead of everyone being on
their best behavior, as if I might fall down and break at any moment.
My parents and Meg relaxed, but my brother Trent and I got very tight.
Like I said, we’d been “besties” up until he was 6 or 7, at least when
we weren’t fighting. Now we were closer than ever, and I realized the
age difference had shrunk. Not really of course; there were three years
between us still, and yet we’d both entered those tween years of early
adolescence. We were talking and joking with each other as equals, and
there was a feeling of intimacy. Just seeing him made me happy. We had
a lot of physical closeness too. Wrestling, hugging, playful pinches,
tickling. Trent was super-ticklish, I could always reduce him to
helpless laughter.
Q. Was there physical attraction between you and Trent?
I’m
getting to that! One night late, I hear a tap on my door. “Hey, if
you’re done wanking, can I come in?” Trent used to crawl into my bed
when he was little, until puberty got between us and I became a nut
case. Before then, I’d do imitations of the teachers that I used to
have and he had now. He’d laugh and I’d tickle him so he laughed
harder. Finally, Mom or Dad would come to my bedroom and yell at us to
shut up and go to sleep. But all of that was at least 7 or 8 years ago.
I said he should come on in, he’s just in time, he can lick the juice
off my dick. So Trent crawls under the covers with me. “I got something
to tell you. Please don’t hate me, but I think I’m gay.” I tell him
that’s horrible, disgusting—and incidentally I’m bi. We talk this stuff
over, very worldly guys, as if we’d known all along, blah, blah, blah.
Then Trent tells me he’s pretty sure Meg likes girls. Which means, he
says, that our family covers all the bases, because Mom loves her job
and Dad loves his cars. And Trent is so happy that I’m bi, because he
didn’t want to be the only one in our family that likes boys.
By this time, I’m laughing out loud, and I just want to hug this sweet
kid, so I hug him and tell him he’s weird and give him a little peck on
the cheek. He goes me one better, he kisses me full on the lips.
We lie in bed together, we’re smiling at each other, I’m stroking his
cheek, and all of a sudden it hits me that he’s 13, at an age when I
was shaving already, yet he’s showing no signs of puberty. His cheek is
smooth, his complexion is pink and white. He’s much shorter than I was
at that age. I hadn’t seen him in the shower, but I had noticed that
when he’d worn shorts, his legs were hairless. So I ask how come he
hadn’t turned into a hairy ape like I had when I was even younger than
he was now. Was he a late-bloomer? And he says, “Mark, you aren’t the
only Puericil boy in this family.”
I was astonished, then
delighted, then upset. Why didn’t he tell me long before now? If his
idea was to go on Puericil just to be supportive, it was a mistake!
Trent smiled—there was no mistake. He’d seen that puberty had been very
rough for lots of kids, not just me. He didn’t like what puberty did to
boys’ bodies. He saw his own first pubes just before his 12th birthday,
and he panicked. What he did was not for me but for himself.
I
assumed on the basis of his age that he went on Puericil/PB? Oh no,
they’d checked his testosterone level, which was fairly high, and then,
considering our family history of early bloomers, they prescribed the
drug he asked for—Puericil/TR!
That’s right, it was his
decision! I saw that Trent was both the youngest and the most mature
person in our family. He was also the cutest, which I had somehow
failed to notice. I drew him to me and kissed him, then we necked for a
long time. Finally I whispered into his ear what I wanted to do. He
nodded.
In my family we wear pajamas. In cool weather, nice
cotton flannel jammies. Trent and I mirrored each other as each of us
slowly unbuttoned his soft flannel top and slid it off his shoulders.
The top button of our flies came next, and the pants slipped from our
slender hips to the floor. We gazed at each other’s bodies; it must
have been about a year into our Puericil/TR treatment that we did this
strip tease for our viewing pleasure.
Aside from my total
smoothness, I was not so different from other boys my age, which was a
few months into my 16th year. My weight loss had continued; I was now
on the slim side. My muscle tone had diminished but not yet
disappeared. My once over-sized dick was just less than average. I
still had orgasms, although my cum was watery. Some people told me I
was beautiful. Trent was one of them.
Trent looked completely
different, compared to me. When we started on Puericil/TR, I’d been
pubescent for at least four years, while Trent’s puberty had barely
begun. For me, there was a LOT for the drug to regress; for Trent,
there was almost nothing.
To my eye, the boy in front of me
was almost magical; I half-expected him to fly out of my bedroom window
and return to Neverland. Nothing about him suggested puberty. He could
have been 10, or 9 even. His body was slender but soft and slightly
rounded, with a hint of baby fat. Even in the dim light, I could see
the pink of his complexion, the white of his perfect smile. He took a
step forward, I took him in my arms and caressed him all over, then
kissed him everywhere. As my lips followed his curves, I got a close
look at what, in a museum, a fig leaf would cover. A very small fig
leaf. The dickie looked like my little finger, certainly no thicker and
maybe slightly shorter.
Trent giggled. “What do you
think of my peepee?” I cleared my throat pompously. “To be honest, it’s
a bit large,” I told him, “but you have time yet.”
Of course
he punched me, I tackled him, and we had sex. In case you’re wondering,
Trent was ecstatic when I licked the head of his dick, and later when I
rimmed him. I noticed the same thing for me: Puericil leaves your
pleasure centers on all the way.
Q. So you and Trent became lovers. How long did your affair last? Or are you still lovers?
We
decided that same night that our fling was a one-off. He still comes to
my bed a lot, and we love to cuddle and spoon and laugh. Sometimes, Mom
or Dad still has to come to my room to ask us to quiet down (“for God’s
sake, does no one sleep in this household?”). We’re still besties but
no sex.
It’s a little hard to explain. Being besties is one
thing, but for us to be lovers would be like binding Trent and me at
the hip.
Q. Does Trent agree?
Yes. The way he put it, he said we want to join the world, not withdraw from it. Which is pretty much what I was trying to say.
Comment on Case Study No. 5:
Critics of Puericil/PB and Puericil/TR object that puberty is a natural
part of life, something that (aside from accidents or disease) all boys
go through. We agree that puberty is natural. So are accidents and
disease. It is “natural” to try to avoid the adverse effects of these
phenomena.
Nature is not so benign as the romantics tell us.
For example, aging is also “natural,” and the maturity of age brings
many benefits. Nevertheless, humanity has always struggled against
decay and death, which are the inevitable products of aging.
We also acknowledge that humanity’s efforts to shape or counteract
“nature” have had mixed results, such as unintended impacts on the
environment. Always, we must consider both the ill to be avoided and
the means by which we hope to avoid it.
Case Study No. 5 shows
how Puericil/TR, in conjunction with the other components of CPM, can
not only alleviate pain but actually save a life. Without drastic
intervention, the prognosis for Mark M would have been poor. Sadly,
Mark M’s issues are shockingly common. Something like 1/3 of the boys
in the PDP have experienced life-threatening behaviors, such as
self-harm, attempted suicide, and severe withdrawal. These boys are
commonly enmeshed in a vicious circle of body issues, low self-esteem,
and social rejection.
We emphasize that medication, though
important, would probably not have enabled Mark M to break through his
vicious circle. Changes in his diet and exercise, plus the support of
his family and teachers, combined to help him overcome his problems.
As seen in this and other case studies, Puericil treatment is commonly
accompanied by an outpouring of sensual and sexual exploration. Such
exploration is also common in adolescent males who are not
taking Puericil. The fact that it has been particularly noticeable in
Puericil boys is not surprising, considering that most of these boys
were relatively withdrawn and repressed in their sex lives before
starting treatment.
The PDP is neutral on the incest taboo insofar as it is a matter of morality. In general, however, incest is
a concern: The combining of physical and emotional dependencies has a
strong potential for complicating the resolution of the intra-family
conflicts that usually originate a boy’s maladjustment. Resolution of
such conflicts is deemed critical for the boy’s ability to establish
and maintain good relationships outside the family. Conversely, a boy
with unresolved family conflicts is likely to mirror those conflicts in
his later relationships with friends and lovers.
In the case
of Mark and Trent, having sex with each other seems understandable,
given both the revival of the intense friendship they had before
puberty, and their bonding as Puericil boys. They also made a sensible
decision to remain “besties” rather than lovers, as both boys recognize
that they will need to look outside the family-of-origin for their
adult relationships.
Case Study No. 6: Ben S
Q. Please describe how you came to be enrolled in the Puericil Disciplinary Program.
I was relatively old. I’d already turned 17. They’d been raising the age limit. It used to be that 15 was the cut-off.
People were surprised at what happened with me. I got good grades. I
was on the debate team, I played chess, very nerdy. And I’d kept my
nose pretty clean until high school. I dated nice girls and got them
home at the time we’d promised. Of course everyone was smoking pot.
Then someone would turn up at a party with fancier recreational drugs.
I knew it was a dumb thing to start taking; we hardly knew what the
shit was. But, you know, you do what everyone else is doing. The
alcohol was also flowing freely.
Pretty soon, I’m selling
stuff myself. I figured I’d have my own stash; plus, I could make a
little money on the side. It’s a slippery slope. I started pushing at
school, getting high myself at lunch. I didn’t think I was addicted,
until I found I couldn’t do without. I knew I was in trouble.
I guess I was what is known as a high-functioning mess. I still showed
up in class and managed to answer when I was called upon. Half the
time, when school let out, I couldn’t remember anything that happened
during the day. One day, collecting my jacket to catch the bus home, I
fell face first into my locker… I turned myself in.
Q. Did you agree that the PDP was right for you?
Not
when it was first proposed. Of course, I wanted to stay out of the
juvenile justice system, and I was ready to accept just about any
alternative. But this whole age regression thing—I mean, what’s the
point? Well, the point was, my behavior was immature. I so wanted to
fit in, to be popular. Or to put it differently, not to be despised by
the cool kids. I planned my life with those goals in mind. That’s a
pretty half-assed way to grow up. As was explained to me, Puericil/TR
lets you re-think some of those decisions. It puts you in a new skin,
literally.
Q. How were your first few weeks after starting Puericil/TR?
I was already in the detox program, so I was no longer walking around
in a daze. The Puericil hit me like a ton of bricks. I saw myself as
childish even before the physical effects took hold. They weren’t long
in coming.
There’s nothing special about my looks overall. I’m
just under 6’ tall. My weight is normal. I was never into sports, but I
have a good enough body. Pleasant, boy-next-door face, at least when
I’m wearing my contacts. I’d been shaving for a year or two. I had a
good bush in my crotch and pits; my legs were quite hairy, and I
noticed some fuzz around my nipples. All normal for 17. My cock stood
out—or rather it didn’t. I was always small-hung, and when I hit
puberty my cock got thicker but not longer. When I started on
Puericil/TR, I was still only about 2.5” soft, which meant that my dick
was pretty much buried in my pubes when I wasn’t erect.
Every
boy on Puericil has weekly nude days, unless he’s taking it as a
prophylactic or has some sort of exemption. So I had weekly nude days,
and they humiliated me more than I ever imagined they would. My body
hair and beard took about a month to disappear, and the increasing
baldness made me feel that I was going back to childhood in front of
everyone’s eyes. My dick was becoming more visible at the same time
that it was slowly shrinking.
I felt my world was collapsing.
I’d always sucked up to the cool kids, who now had no use for me. Some
of those kids had bought my drugs, but there’s no shortage of pushers
around. Naturally I had to keep my mouth shut. The high achievers from
the debate team and the chess club were no kinder than the cool kids. I
still did my classwork, but even the teachers had soured on me.
Q. What about your family?
I figured you’d get around to asking.
Q. Don’t answer if you don’t want to.
I don’t want to answer, but I feel I must. Besides my parents, I have
two sisters. They’re 17-18 years older than me. Both married and long
since gone from the house. They’re more like aunts; I see them at
holidays.
I was born when my parents were middle-aged. Now my
father is into his sixties, and my mom is pushing 60. I got to
wondering, so a few years ago I asked my mother: Was I a mistake? She
said, no, of course not. Then she added that I was their last-ditch
effort to have a son. I didn’t feel reassured.
My father
always wears a white shirt and tie, even around the house, even on
week-ends. The thought that I might play a game or sports with my
father never occurred to me. When I was small, my mother sometimes took
me to the lake to swim, or to ice-skate when it froze over. I don’t
remember her ever swimming or skating herself. I didn’t know any kids,
at least no one I remember now.
When I first started going to
school, I turned into this low-maintenance, no-worry child. I was
smart, I did fine in my classes, I “played well with others.” At 15,
when I started hitting the booze and shit, I hid it well. Or maybe my
parents just didn’t notice. They said they suspected nothing, but when
I hit the wall, it was like I’d personally offended them. My father
wouldn’t speak to me; my mother told me I should be grateful that they
didn’t throw me out.
Q. Did you have no support system at all? The PDP is supposed to provide services to help Puericil boys adjust.
What turned things around for me was the support I got from other Puericil boys!
When I was enrolled, the PDP had been around for several years. The
administrators had this idea that Puericil boys could actually help
each other out: Compare notes, keep tabs on what was happening, give
feedback, provide shoulders to lean on and pep talks when needed.
Back in the day when they were first experimenting with these groups,
there were formal sessions with a facilitator, but when I started, a
facilitator would attend only for a session or two periodically;
mostly, the group kind of ran itself. My school was grades 7 to 12, so
we had kids in my group over a wide age range. At the young end, we had
an 11 year-old; at the other end was … me! For what seemed like a long
time, I was both the oldest in age and also the newest kid in the group.
Everyone was so
different. For example, besides me, only two kids had serious drug
problems. There were other kinds of addiction, however. Plus, bullying.
Sexual harassment. Theft—not always petty theft, either. Not to mention
the differences in background. We had to listen to each other carefully
in order to understand, to empathize. And others held a mirror up to
me, so I came to know myself better.
Q. I understand that the group sessions were mostly naked?
That’s right, and it was a decision by the group, not by the
facilitator. If a new kid was joining, we’d have a couple sessions with
our clothes on, then ask him whether he would be comfortable if we
undressed. The kid would agree, sometimes a little reluctantly, but
always before the session was half over, he’d be nude too.
Q. Why do you think that was?
Oh gosh, for me it just makes so much sense, but I can speak only for myself.
Here I am, in my new skin, I WANT to show myself to you. And I want to see you too. We all of us look really beautiful!
Sounds gay, I know. How many of us were gay or bi? I’d say, no more
than in any other group of boys. I happen to be straight, but that
didn’t stop me from hugging others in the group, and kissing some who
were my particular friends. I had missed out on that kind of
comradeship; now I experienced it, and I loved it. I loved being
touched; I loved knowing that others thought I was beautiful. I loved
being naked. One of us had a hot tub at his family home; we got in the
habit of going there on a Saturday or Sunday most weekends, just for
the pleasure of soaking, then showering together.
Q. Was there any group sex?
No, and that was a group decision too. We wanted sex to be intimate,
and we didn’t want anyone to feel pressured into having sex. Lots of
boys did pair off for sex, however, and caressing was something that
friends could always do with each other. Billy, who’s the 11 year-old I
mentioned, we bonded even though neither of us is gay. He had the
cutest little bubble butt and loved to have me grab it when we hugged
and brush my fingers over the cleavage of his buns. I loved his tushie;
I was happy to oblige. He spent many of our naked sessions on my lap
cuddling with me. We’re both dating women now, but we still kiss every
time we run into each other.
Q. Going back to knowing yourself better, could you be more specific?
As you can imagine, much of what we had to say to each other was about
how we came to be in the PDP, so far as we could understand. Just like
with me, many boys were more or less in a haze when we got into
trouble. And just like in this interview, we talked about the things
that troubled us or puzzled us.
Kids asked each other
questions, and those questions could bring up deep feelings. The group
sessions could become very emotional.
I told my story, and
there was a pause. Eventually, somebody asked something about my
parents, and I got very defensive. Sure, my parents were interested in
me, they always checked my report card. That’s all? Well, you need to
know that my parents are much much older than me. Why does their age
matter? Well, my parents really aren't very feely-touchy. How
feely-touchy is it to ask your kid how he’s doing?
I could
feel myself getting upset, then something broke inside me and I was
crying. Then I lost it altogether, I was sobbing and shaking. I felt a
terrible pain in my throat, as if the words I’d spoken were tearing me
apart.
The pain was not only about my parents not loving me,
or about my so-called friends not giving a shit about me. I too was a
phony. I was a “pleaser,” but did I really care about my family or
friends? I did not receive love, but neither was I loving. That was the
naked truth.
With this realization, I was both sad and relieved.
Q. How were you relieved?
I could get on with my life. I no longer had to prove myself to people who really didn't care one way or another.
Q. So, how were you able to move on?
It was surprisingly easy. Once I was comfortable in my own skin, when I
stopped being anxious over everything I said, when I could relax,
people began to open up to me. They too could relax and stop worrying I
was on the brink of a nervous breakdown. Maybe I was closer to the
brink than I knew, but those sessions with other Puericil boys pulled
me back.
I guess you know that there are women who have a
‘thing’ for Puericil boys. The fact that none of us was hairy or brawny
caused many women to think Puericil boys are free of macho BS. I can
say that’s not always true; in fact, many Puericil boys were
sexual harassers. However, the drug did seem to let us dial back that
kind of behavior. The drug also drastically reduces the danger of
unwanted pregnancy, and that sense of security probably makes some
girls willing to be a little friskier.
Whatever the reason,
many girls in my class took the lead in making me welcome. There were
parties and dates. Puericil didn’t affect my potency; because I was
enrolled in the PDP so late in puberty, the drug would take two years
or more before it would affect my ability to perform. Miraculously, I
got over the embarrassment of having a tiny dick. First off, the girls
expected it; if it bothered them, they wouldn’t have dated me. Second,
I had always been a ‘grower,’ not a shower. The main shock was losing
my pubes; after that I was fine.
Q. What is your current situation, after more than three years since you were enrolled in the PDP?
I
graduated high school (with honors!), and the administrators released
me from the PDP after only about a year in the program. I got into
college, at my father’s alma mater. I’m once again low-maintenance from
my parents’ point-of-view. We’re on speaking terms, which is really all
we ever were.
I feel great. I know who I am, and who my
friends are. I still go to the PDP boys’ hot-tub parties. Hair? Well, I
now have a few wispies, but I get my whole body waxed whenever I see
stubble. I’ve told Billy I won’t allow myself pubes until he does. He
says that’ll be never.
Comment on Case Study No. 6:
Many Puericil boys were gang members. Ben S, in contrast, sought
comrades among social and intellectual cliques. Neither the gangs nor
the cliques provided true companionship. A welcome surprise in the PDP
is that many of the Puericil boys have thrived in each other’s company,
finding both affirmation and emotional connection.
Looking at
the case of Ben S in particular, his bonds with Puericil boys supplied
things that seemingly were missing from his life. In Billy, he found a
younger brother whom he cherishes, and who looks up to him. In the
broader group, he found what many youths experience in common
activities for pre-pubertal boys, such as the scout movement or summer
camps for boys: A homosocial environment outside the family, where boys
play, work, and interact in a common enterprise. (It is noteworthy that
Ben S did not participate in scouting or go to summer camp.)
Such homosocial environments permit physical closeness that may or may
not include sexual activity. Ben S and Billy identify as straight, but
such identification does not necessarily explain their abstinence,
since many “straight” boys engage in sexual experimentation at some
stage. Instead, we suggest that for Ben S and Billy, the decision not
to have sex seems to have validated the purity of their brotherly bond,
without any underlying sexual agenda. In any case, the way that the
Puericil group respects the limits of individuals shows remarkable
sensitivity and maturity.
Ben’s parents are comfortably well
off, and he suffered no physical abuse, but the history of his
home-life shows extreme emotional deprivation. His father displays no
almost no affect, and both parents show no understanding of Ben’s
problems. Indeed, Ben likely was an unwanted child, the result,
as he puts it, of a “mistake.” For a boy growing up in such a home,
Ben’s emotional neediness comes as no surprise.
Case Study No. 7: Heath R
Q. At what age did you begin taking Puericil/TR?
Unfortunately, not until I was 18.
Q. Please explain.
My gender dysphoria wasn’t diagnosed until then. I’m not blaming anyone. Just saying a lot of suffering could have been avoided.
Q. Could you say some more about your gender dysphoria?
Seems like I talk about it all the time. Can we talk about something else?
[Long pause]
I
think everything went haywire when I hit puberty. Before then, I was a
happy friendly kid. I remember getting along with everyone. Boys,
girls, my parents. Then my pubes grew, my cock got bigger, and I lost
my mind. I was always pissed off about something or someone.
Q. Do you wish you’d started taking Puericil back then?
Back then, it wasn’t an option. I mean, you weren’t placed in the PDP
just for being a jerk. What adolescent boy isn’t cranky most of the
time? If crankiness qualified, every 13 year-old boy would be on
Puericil. Come to think of it, maybe that wouldn’t be such a bad idea.
Q.
Let’s go back to the present then. According to the records, you’re
taking Puericil/TR for strictly therapeutic reasons, not for any kind
of misconduct. Is that correct?
I’m sorry, but these labels mean nothing to me. Can I just tell my story in my own words?
Q. Please do!
OK.
To cut to the chase, a lot of people have been trying to fit me into a
box rather than trying to understand me. I’m not surprised because it’s
taken me a long time to understand myself. Maybe you’ll see what I mean.
From as far back as I can remember, I was equally happy playing with
boys or girls. I also liked to wear anything that looked good to me. If
I liked a dress, why couldn’t I wear it? I’ve got two arms, two legs, a
head; so do girls; so why should we dress differently? I knew I had
something between my legs that girls didn’t, but it wasn’t so big that
I couldn’t fit it into a pair of panties. So what if it made a bulge?
My mom and dad were fine with this cross-dressing, which was not a
full-time thing anyway. They’re quite modern; they let me dress in my
sister’s hand-me-downs, as long as it made me happy. They told me that
my tastes might change, or maybe they wouldn’t change, but either way
it’s nothing to worry about. I’m grateful that they have always stuck
up for me with other parents, the school, and so on.
I was NOT
trying to be feminine. I didn’t lisp or wear my hair in curls, but I
didn’t try to be masculine either. I liked playing house; I also liked
playing baseball. When people said I had to do one or the other, I was
puzzled. Why not do both? It still puzzles me.
When the school
shrink asked me if I felt I was a girl born in a boy’s body, I said, no
of course not. Therefore, no gender dysphoria, according to the shrink.
The shrink might have asked me whether I felt I was a boy born in a boy’s body; I would have said no to that too! I’m human. I have a body.
As a kid, I thought I had a really nice body, and I was happy to show
it off. There were plenty of opportunities. I was in cub scouts and boy
scouts and went off to summer camp. At school, there was gym class,
with the locker room and the showers. These were all-boy affairs. I
looked at other boys and saw that many of them had really nice bodies
too. I made friends among boys my age. These friendships could be warm
and tender. We’d go camping and have sleepovers, and we’d get naked and
hug each other. We might get stiffies and rub ourselves to a dry cum,
or we might not even touch other down there. Sex wasn’t the goal; the
goal was closeness.
Puberty changed all that, for me and my
friends both. We became very self-conscious. Is he “coming on” to me?
Do I hug him back? What if he’s not coming on to me, what if he
just wants to get a rise out of me? Is what we’re doing GAY? What if it
is? What if we are? We started hiding from each other and from
ourselves.
Suddenly, the middle-school locker room filled up
with snide comments about cocksucking and asslicking. At that point,
I’d done neither of these things, and I wasn’t sure I wanted to. I
didn’t understand why the things that I knew I did want, like hugging, somehow made me one of these terrible cocksuckers and asslickers.
Along with those comments were equally upsetting jokes about boobs and
pussies. Then more crap: How anxious we all were to get a piece of
tail. Who had actually managed to get to which base with which girls.
We told stupid jokes and felt that we had to laugh at them. We told
each other obvious lies.
We also became ashamed of our bodies.
There was always a reason for shame. Size or the lack of it. Hair or
the lack of it. The dandruff; the ear wax; the smells. The zits that
turned up almost anywhere, and we picked at them and they got infected.
I was frustrated, scared, and humiliated. Nothing I’d been through before was remotely like this. Welcome to puberty.
Q. Were you personally stigmatized as one of those “terrible cocksuckers and asslickers”?
No, no, no. See, everyone was calling everyone else by those names and other names of the same type. No one would admit to being one of those people, especially if you’d actually done stuff.
Middle school boys got only four things to talk about. How dumb their
parents are. How dumb their teachers are. How bored they are. And how
horny they are. That’s all. Press the shuffle button. Actually, back
then, I fit right in.
Of course, I was awful to my family. My
sister, who’s a lot older than I am and remembered what middle school
boys were like, just rolled her eyes. My poor parents were concerned
and tried to be understanding. Recalling the ‘girly’ things I used to
do, they thought I might be gay. They took me to a gay shrink. Whaddya
know? He decides I’m gay.
I wasn’t so sure. I found adolescent
boys, including me, pretty repulsive. I wasn’t interested in ‘daddies’
or jocks. Boy bands didn’t appeal to me. I admitted to the shrink that
I’d licked the head of a dick several times, but I couldn’t get it in
my mouth very far without gagging. I particularly didn’t want a Big
Black Cock, or any size or color cock, up my ass.
The shrink
told me I had internalized homophobia. My parents left a book called
“Anal Pleasure and Health” on my nightstand. The book was good, but it
didn’t make me any more keen to get screwed.
Q, Did you decide that you were NOT gay?
I thought that gay was as good a description of me as any, but it never
felt right. I got some comfort out of seeing that most of the boys my
age were weirded out in one way or another. By the time I got to high
school, I had calmed down a little. In high school, there was this
LGBTQ club called Queertopia. I figured what-the-hell and went.
The club was anything but free sex. I found a lot of people like me.
Mostly, they were drawn to the same sex, but they felt way out of sync
with any stereotypical same-sex behavior.
In the club, I
definitely shed the notion that I might be bisexual. I’d been telling
myself that I liked boyish girls and girlish boys. Then a pair of nice
lesbians sat down with me and told me about the vagina. About vagina
anatomy. About what happens in there during sex, and what it smells
like. That was scary. The fact that babies emerge between shit and piss
kinda took the poetry out of birth.
Then they told me what
women must do to have that smooth bikini line. I was shocked to learn
that adult women become just about as hairy between the legs as adult
men. “So,” they said, “you ready to eat pussy yet? Real men love to eat
pussy.” I felt like barfing.
Of course I know that sex of any kind is with real bodies; it’s always
going to be messy. To my way of thinking, that’s another reason to be
choosy. Sex should be with a partner whose body attracts you and whose
personality you like. So I decided for myself that I would NOT have sex
simply in order to get laid.
Q. Did you have sex in high school?
I had some, maybe more than most, and mostly it was the wrong kind,
just to get laid. I told myself that mistakes are also a learning
experience.
I kept thinking back to my life before puberty. It
seemed easy to make friends then, and the question of whether I was
going to have sex with somebody didn’t come up. We often did
touch each other, and that was cool, but we didn’t have to, and no one
got pissed off. Puberty turned that around. Now the tail was wagging
the dog.
I’d heard about Puericil/TR when I was a senior in
high school, and I wondered what the experience would be like to wind
back my body’s clock. I would be same person, with whatever I’d learned
since puberty, but maybe with my testosterone in check, I could … start
making sense.
Meanwhile, like most kids, I’d discovered the
wonders of porn on the Internet. Like I already said, most of the gay
porn does nothing for me, but one site turned out to be different. The
images there are all digital, and some of the artists really seem to
speak to me. They show boyhood on the brink of puberty, maybe 10-14,
and they understand that age in a way I can relate to.
One
artist is named Bastian. He has long wonderful stories with intricate
plots. Another artist is named Lammegeier; his best stuff is very
short, only a dozen images or even less. Both these artists capture a
feeling. Their boys are comrades first and above all else. In Bastian’s
stories, there is sex, and yes, sometimes it’s casual sex. For the main
characters, however, romance comes before sex.
Lammergeier’s
boys do not have sex, but their relationship is even more romantic. You
see his boys in bed or on the beach or before the fireplace. Their arms
are around each other, and they are simply happy to be together. In the
moment, they’re sensual and sexy.
The boys of Bastian and
Lammergeier are intensely physical in their relations with each other,
even without sex. They run and jump and swim. They hug, they cuddle,
they play tickle games. They are always touching, finding excuses to
touch. I read these stories and snippets, and I thought to myself, THIS
is for me, this is what I want.
Q. Do you consider yourself a pedophile?
Can we please
just try to get away from labels for a while? What I just said is that
I want comradeship before sex, or even without sex, and that’s
something I haven’t experienced except before puberty. I think that’s very different from saying I want comradeship and sex from pre-pubescent boys.
I’m no goody-goody, I’m just being real. Tweens are not relationship
material, not for adults. I know I myself wasn’t looking for a
long-term relationship when I was a tween boy! The things I want now,
I’ll have to find in another adult.
In fact, I’m most attracted to smooth bodies, and I prefer small-to-average sized cocks. Yup, boy-like for sure, but there are
grown men who have that type of body. I now have that type of body
myself, thanks to Puericil/TR. Many of the guys in Queertopia are also
on Puericil/TR, or are seriously thinking about it. What remains to
find out is whether we’ll be able to achieve our romantic ideal as well
as our physical ideal.
Comment on Case Study No. 7:
Heath R as an adolescent did not get into trouble either legally or
academically, yet he argues strongly for the prophylactic use of
Puericil, in either of its later formulations. The case for
prophylactic use is particularly strong for all non-binary individuals,
and not only M-to-F transexuals. Puberty for such individuals has all
the usual stress, compounded by well-intentioned pressure from many
sources to fit into one or other off-the-shelf sexual identities.
In part, the future that Heath R sees for himself resembles the model
of comrade-love described by 19th century gay pioneers such as Edward
Carpenter and Walt Whitman. He rejects the classical model of Greek
love, where an older man assumes a pedagogical role with a boy, trains
the boy in the duties of manhood, and enjoys anal sex with the boy, who
invariably is penetrated. [This kind of mentor/lover is found
sometimes in Bastian’s stories, but the love between boy and boy seems
to be the emotional core for Bastian, as it certainly is for Heath.]
Given Heath’s physical preferences and his recollection of happy
pre-pubertal friendships, we might ask why he rejects pedophilia (apart
from legal considerations)? Careful examination of Heath’s statements
may give the answer: The relationships he had, and the relationships in
his fantasies, are all within his peer group and never intergenerational.
From a strictly practical standpoint, a romantic relationship between a
man and a boy in the 10-14 age group would be difficult to sustain. The
boy will soon face the struggles of early puberty, which are much
different from the issues of adulthood. Furthermore, the man in such a
relationship will have to juggle two roles, as lover and as parent. Of
course, there will be complex power dynamics in any relationship, but
the inequality between man and boy would tip the scale drastically.
When these factors are considered, Heath’s ideal of adult comradeship
may have more substance than appears at first blush. Certainly, those
men and boys who, like Heath, complete a typical course of treatment
with Puericil/TR will have the boyish body of an early tween for the
rest of their lives. It seems reasonable to hope that among such men,
Heath will find some who are also like-minded.
5. Puericil Goes Mainstream
We
now come to the changes in the way that Puericil is used. The changes
evolved gradually and were due to two main factors. First, the drug’s
different formulations enabled a more focused treatment plan, tailored
to individual boys’ needs as determined by caregivers and,
increasingly, by the boys themselves. Second, with the benefit of
actual experience, perceptions shifted dramatically. The range of
treatable problems expanded, as did the age at which boys and men may
benefit from Puericil treatment.
As noted above, Puericil
in its several formulations was originally a response to misconduct and
maladjustment in young males. The problems were typically those
associated with the onset and early stages of puberty. Thus, the drug
was prescribed as part of a treatment plan for boys in the 10-16 age
group, most commonly in grades 6 through 10 or 11.
However,
from the beginning, many people believed the disciplinary focus of the
PDP was too narrow. Moreover, the boys who benefited from Puericil were
not necessarily ‘problem’ boys. Boys and men generally lag behind girls
and women in the development of social skills. This lag could not be
attributed solely to sexual malaise, and it was observable both well
before and long after pubescence. The larger goal, it is argued, should
be improving the socialization of males. Masculinity should be
regulated before it becomes toxic, which suggests beginning
Puericil treatment while the boy is asymptomatic. At the other end of
the age spectrum, adult males respond well to Puericil/TR for
alleviation of post-puberty syndrome (often referred to as mid-life
crisis).
The above reasoning has increasingly prevailed, and
under this reasoning, a boy or man need not be admitted to a formal
Puericil Disciplinary Program before beginning treatment. Preventive
(or ‘prophylactic’) treatment now accounts for more than half of males
newly started on Puericil, and the fastest growing market segments are
pre-pubescent boys (as young as 9) and middle-aged men.
The
manufacturer of the Puericil line of products has both facilitated and
responded to growing demand. The original Puericil and Puericil/PB may
now be purchased over-the-counter. They have long been available as
pills instead of injections. More recently, Puericil-laced milkshakes
and topical creams containing various percentages of Puericil have been
introduced. The frosting on the cake, as it were, is that Puericil
prices have come down. Puericil’s safety record, effectiveness, ease of
use, wide availability, and affordability have all contributed to the
drug’s acceptance. (Puericil/TR continues to require prescriptions, due
to possibly irreversible effects resulting from continuous use or from
high dosages.)
Case Study No. 8: Phil A and His Family
Q. How old were you when you started taking Puericil?
I think you’d have to ask Mommy. I know for sure I was on Puericil/PB
by the time I turned 11. But shouldn’t you be asking about the whole
family? After all, Daddy and both of my older brothers all take
Puericil now.
That year between my 11th and 12th birthdays was
such an exciting year! When that year started, all the other boys in my
family were making fun of me, ‘cuz I just wasn’t interested in the
things they liked. Y’know, they used to get up early in cold and nasty
weather to go do manly stuff like hunt and fish. I would stay under my
warm covers in my onesie, until Mommy would wake me for my oatmeal and
buttered toast with honey. The closest I ever got to the Great Outdoors
was the Noontime Farm Report on WCRP.
So Daddy called me a
sissy, which I’m happy to say I am. Pat and Polk said I was useless,
and they called me Land-Phil. This is what passes for wit here in the
Frozen North. But before the year was out, they were all on
Puericil/TR, and Mommy switched me to Puericil/TR so she could get the
bulk discount.
Q. Did you get along with your father and brothers?
Sure
did, as long as I could ignore them. Mostly, they were happy to ignore
me. The three of them were celebrities, you see. Heroes of the
ass-kicking, oath-keeping, real-men community. The magazine “Hunt &
Gather” used to run a feature on them each season. Peter—that’s
Daddy—was co-author of Slaughter: A Boy’s Guide to Killing.
He was also on the board of the National Recoil Association. My
brothers Pat and Polk worshiped Daddy. Mommy (Pam) was also part of
that church, but now she’s in recovery.
You’ll notice that everyone’s first name starts with P. That’s Daddy’s doing. He thought he put the P in Penis.
Q. How did the other men in your family wind up on Puericil?
Oh,
they begged for it. OK, not exactly begged, but that’s how I like to
think of their plea bargains. Let’s see … Pat was first, which is
appropriate because he’s the oldest, four years older than me. He
walked out of a department store with some things he hadn’t paid for.
Q. Could it have been absent-mindedness?
Six
things from three different departments. All recorded on security
cameras. He didn’t seem at all absent-minded, he looked pretty
deliberate.
It was Juvie or Puericil/TR for Pat. Daddy was
furious. ‘No son of mine blah blah blah’ and ordered Pat to choose the
drug. Serve him right, according to Daddy.
Then there was
Polk, two years older than me. Polk is the bright one. A math whiz and
a computer whiz. He hacked into the school computer and stole the
answers to a math exam. He sold them to a couple doofuses who were
failing the course.
The doofuses had been failing SO badly
that the math teacher immediately noticed their perfect scores. So he
pulled them out of study hall, told them that he was so sorry, but
their exams had somehow gotten deleted, what a shame, but they’d have
to take the exam again. In fairness to their classmates, it would have
to be a different exam, the one the teacher used last year. The
doofuses both got zero, and to seal the deal the math teacher had
actually used the SAME test that the doofuses had supposedly just aced.
Turns out that Polk the computer whiz had neglected to cover up his
hack. The math teacher and the assistant principal confronted him. Polk
denied everything, so then they brought in the two doofuses, who
supplied ALL the details, including how much they’d paid.
It
was expulsion or Puericil/TR for Polk. Daddy was furious. He hated to
toss the whiz kid under the bus, but then he’d just done that to Pat,
and Daddy likes to be consistent.
Q. And your father?
Toward
the end of the year, Daddy’s embezzlement was discovered. He’d had his
hand in the cookie jar at the bank where he was the Chief Financial
Officer. His skimming had been judicious and on a small scale, but
spread over several years it had piled up. Daddy likes to be consistent.
Daddy pleaded guilty and returned his skimmings, with interest (he’s a
banker after all). In return the DA recommended a short prison sentence.
The judge at the sentencing hearing scowled at the defendant. He
guffawed when our lawyer referred to Daddy as a Pillar of the
Community. Maybe the judge was a depositor? Anyway, it sure looked like
several years in the slammer for Daddy until Mommy took the stand.
Mommy explained that Daddy was totally changed. She personally could
assure the Court that he was a mere shell of the man he used to be.
Besides, the boys in the family were all under great stress. They
needed their Daddy to go through the experience that lay ahead of them.
Daddy should be with them every step of the way.
Through all
of this, Daddy was sniffling quietly, and so were Pat and Polk. I got
the impression this judge was not the brightest bulb, but Mommy kept
talking about her tight-knit little family until the light came on.
Daddy was sentenced to a bunch of hours of community service and three
years of Puericil/TR.
We’re all of us short in my family. So
that the men could look taller, Mommy always wore flats and hunched
over slightly. Now, coming out of the courthouse, Mommy was wearing
heels and standing up straight, and I realized she was the tallest of
us by an inch or more.
Not only did Mommy seem to have grown,
but Daddy and the boys, looking downcast and with their shoulders
slumped, looked smaller. I think Pat and Poke must be late bloomers;
they’re much older than I am but only a little bit taller, and I was on
Puericil before either of them.
Q. Did your home life change with all the males on Puericil?
Not much changed for me. I always wanted to be soft and pretty, and
after Pat and Polk, Mommy was very happy to get soft and pretty. No,
I’m definitely not a girl, I’m a girly boy. I dress to suit my mood. I
do my hair or dye my hair or just let it grow long. I don’t do sports.
I don’t play with erector sets. By the time I was four, at the latest,
I think Daddy had given up on making a man of me.
Yes, Daddy
called me a sissy, but when I told him that a sissy was exactly what I
am, he pretty much accepted me. Even my brothers were OK, except when
we were in public and they’d get all embarrassed. I was no cry-baby.
I’d make fun of their fashion sense, and they would smile and laugh at
themselves.
At home, where they didn’t have to act like Great
White Hunters/Junior Division, they were really rather sweet. We had
pillow fights and made popcorn with ridiculous amounts of butter and
watched movies. Poke even whispered to me that he’d rather watch Fred
Astaire and Ginger Rogers than go ice fishing.
And I love
Daddy, I really do. He’d let me climb onto his lap and cuddle, at least
up to when I was about 9. He wore a wrist watch with a metal band that
made these little parallel grooves on his skin. I can’t explain the
fascination, but I loved to feel those grooves. I’d move that band
after he came home from his office, then gently rub the grooves. ‘Poor
Daddy,’ I’d say, ‘he’s working so hard.’ Weird, huh? It was my way of
showing affection; I think he understood that; anyway, he never stopped
me from rubbing.
Naturally, though, I was always closest to
Mommy. I made my own bed as long as I can remember. I hung around the
kitchen and ‘helped’ her cook. Eventually, I really did some of the
cooking, and I always helped with the washing up, without being asked.
No one in the family else helped with anything. They barely did
anything for themselves. Daddy wasn’t above yelling for someone to
bring him his house slippers. Well, I wasn’t about to, so Mommy did.
Q. How did you feel about that?
I
complained to Mommy. How can you let Daddy treat you like that? She
said she was brought up that way, and now that she’d figured out there
was another way, it was too late to change. I thought of some smart-ass
comebacks but didn’t say them, I just hugged her. And Mommy said she
loved all her family the same … but I was the nicest person.
Well, for all kinds of reasons, I was NOT going to be the sort of
person I saw those days in Daddy or Pat or Polk. I was going to be
kittenish, maybe a little catty now and then. I was going to have soft
skin with no zits, and I wasn’t going to watch my hair grow thin on top
like Daddy’s. ‘Sounds like you won’t be growing up’ was Mommy’s
comment. I thought that over and decided she was right.
Some
time before I turned 11, I asked Mommy to give me a bath. We always
enjoyed that, although lately I’d been bathing myself, she was just so
tired from cleaning up after the rest of the household. Mommy knew I
was terrified of puberty, so when I pointed to a bit of fluff above my
peepee, she didn’t laugh. She told me it would probably be a long time
before that peach fuzz turned into anything serious.
I started
to cry, which is not usual for me. I guess I said something like, I
didn’t want to take any chances. Mommy held my tearful face in
her hands for a bit, then gave me a kiss and promised me. ‘An ounce of
prevention…’ I finished her sentence, ‘…is worth a pound of Puericil.’
Which doesn’t make any sense, but I know it wasn’t long before I was
popping Puericil/PB pills and washing them down with Puericil
milkshakes. Mango flavor rocks!
Q. It sounds like all along you wanted to go on Puericil, and your mother and you decided on the timing.
That’s about right.
Q.
But your father and brothers never planned to go on Puericil, and when
they did, it was under duress. So, what was it like to watch each of
them start on Puericil/TR, one after the other? As they continued
taking the medication, did the family dynamics change?
Like you said, it was sequential. Pat the shoplifter was first in line.
At that point, Jupiter—that’s Daddy— was still running things up on
Mount Olympus. He ordered that even though Pat would be naked at school
only one day a week, at home Pat would be naked all the time.
Well, you never saw such a crybaby! After the big unveil, we understood
why. Pat was clearly a strong candidate for Unhung Champion of the
World, and he’d only started the med on the day before. I wish I had a
ruler, but I could only guess. Not more than an inch and a half, and
skinny too.
I’d an idea that my brothers were late bloomers;
Pat sure was. He had pubes but not many, and no other man-hair to speak
of. Still, Daddy was not about to wait for Puericil to do its thing. He
grabbed Mommy’s tweezers and plucked Pat, one hair at a time, until Pat
was pubeless as an egg, and Pat blubbering the whole time.
Am
I bad? Maybe, but I admit I enjoyed watching Pat get plucked, and I
caught Poke smirking once or twice. Mommy got out some soothing
ointment and rubbed it in generously all over Pat’s crotch, including
his peepee and balls and even beyond his balls to where his buns start.
(Later I got a peek at the ointment. It was Puericil topical cream,
lavender scented, non-greasy formula.) As Mom massaged, Pat seemed to
calm down; he even thanked Mommy. She gave him a nice kiss, much to
Daddy’s disgust.
Pat mellowed pretty fast. I think he never
grew another pube, and his complexion cleared in a few days. His
personality changed even faster. He wasn’t Mark Trail any more. He was
embarrassed about the shoplifting, but he didn’t beat his breast and
shout mea culpa. He’d actually been stealing for a while and
wholesaling his swag to his classmates; ‘everyone’ knew about it. He
now thought it was a dumb stunt. To my surprise, he said his pretending
to be a great sportsman was equally dumb. All along, he’d hated to leave a warm bed at 4 a.m. to go shoot at something.
Another surprise was his peepee. Oh, it got even smaller, and Pat was proud
to announce the fact. ‘Hey guys, look at how tiny I am! Mommy, how
about a rub down?’ And Mommy got out her special cream. Pat tried all
the scents and decided he liked gardenia best.
Mommy was now
spreading the cream well into Pat’s buns and even slid a finger up
Pat’s little hole until she found that little bump, what is it? Yup,
his prostate. She said the butt massage enhanced the cream’s
effectiveness. Anyway, Pat loved it, and when Mommy was busy, I gave
him the massage myself.
Turnabout is fair play, so Pat
massaged me, and I enjoyed these peenie rubs as much as Pat enjoyed
his. We’d both be naked of course, and afterwards we’d have a nice
shower, usually followed by a cuddle. One night I told him, truthfully,
that I was happy he was my brother. He cried a little bit and told me
he thought he might be a sissy. I couldn’t stop laughing, then he got
the giggles too. We spent a lovely night together.
Sissy or
not, Pat did not change his preference. He still went for the girls,
and he found that lots of girls go for sissies. Girls would walk him
home and offer to carry his books. Pat told me how aggressively these
girls used to feel him up; he got starry-eyed talking about his sex
life!
Pat was sorry to be nude at school only one day a week,
until he developed sissy fashion sense. He wore the shortest, skimpiest
shorts he could find and slashed them up the sides. He also bought
soft, silky blouses and left most of the buttons open or else he tied
the shirt-tails across his midriff. Either way, he exposed his cute
belly button and a lot of skin, especially because the waistline of his
shorts barely reached his pubic mound.
Besides being Pat’s
fashion consultant, I gave him another piece of advice: Good sissies
always tuck. I showed him how. After Pat was on Puericil/TR for a
few weeks, you’d never guess…
Pat also asked me about my
tastes; it was in between kisses one night. “C’mon, Phil sweetie, tell
your Big Sissy Bro. You must be gay, huh?” I sighed and explained: No,
I’m not gay. Most men and a lot of boys turn me off. I like sissies, and thanks to Puericil, there seems to be more of us all the time.
Daddy was disgusted to have TWO sissy sons, but Mommy thoroughly approved and was happy that she now had two sweet boys helping around the house. Then the roof caved in on Polk.
Q. Before you get to that subject, could you say something about how Polk reacted to Pat going on Puericil?
Well,
Polk didn’t act all high and mighty, like Daddy did. I think Poke
enjoyed seeing Pat taken down a peg. Several pegs, actually. Pat often
overdid his big brother act. Polk also knew about Pat’s sideline in
stolen goods and said something know-it-all to Pat about how it was
always just a question of time. But I also heard Pat mutter something
to Polk that now seems like a warning, like Polk shouldn’t get too
cocky himself. If it was a warning, Polk paid no attention.
It
seems Polk had been selling exam answers for a while, and he had
stopped taking the precaution of selling only to kids who might have
done reasonably well on their own. However, the math teacher was
curious enough to do more digging, and of course he turned up the prior
hacks. Now this was turning into an embarrassment for the school as
well as Polk. So the math teacher simply dropped a hint about how much
he knew, and Polk folded. He told Daddy he was ready to take his
medicine. Ha ha!
Q. How did the rest of the family react?
I
think Mommy always secretly preferred Pat and me to Polk. Pat was her
eldest, I was her youngest, and Polk kinda got lost in the shuffle. Or
maybe Mommy was just starting to exert more control over the family.
She announced that Polk’s high marks in school did not entitle him to
any privileges; if anything, his misbehavior seemed more calculating
than Pat’s, and so deserved more severe punishment.
Daddy
glared at her; he would have spared Polk some humiliation if he could.
Instead, Mommy had Polk de-pubed immediately, as Daddy had done to Pat,
and to increase the humiliation, she had Pat do the de-pubing! It was
sweet but quick; compared to my bit of fluff (now vanished), Polk’s
pubes were darker and coarser but just as sparse. His thin hairless
peepee might have been a bit longer than Pat’s or mine; Puericil soon
made short work of the difference.
Pat also applied the
Puericil cream. Polk squirmed. Maybe he thought Mommy would give him
his massage, and he seemed miffed when she didn’t. By this time,
though, Pat and I had become VERY good at peenie massages from
practicing with each other. In a minute or two, Polk stopped
squiriming, then he relaxed, then he looked downright blissful.
There’s a funny thing that Puericil does. Tensions and antagonisms
sorta melt. All three of us brothers had our full share of the things
that brothers fight about. Old grievances that aren’t forgotten, even
years later. We also loved each other, but the old grievances got in
the way of the affection. And here we were now, touching the family
jewels tenderly, lovingly. I tell you, I wanted that touch, both the giving and the receiving.
Pat saw the effect he was having, and he plunged ahead, probing Polk’s
prostate. Polk gave a little squeal and then, well, I’d have to say he
purred. His eyes were closed, he got this little smile on his face; Pat
and I made eye contact, then Polk’s eyes opened; we all looked at each
other and smiled.
Daddy reacted like Daddy. “If that’s not the
goddamdest thing I’ve ever seen!” he said with a sneer. Then Mommy
surprised us all. “Shut the fuck up, Pete,” she shouted. “Boys just
wanna have fun.” Juno stole Jupiter’s thunderbolt!
Polk adapted to the PDP even faster than Pat did. I'm sure part of the reason was that Polk could stop pretending.
Q, About the cheating?
Oh, no, about pretending to be straight. Poor Polk’s gay as a goose. He
had known for a long time, but there didn't seem room for a queer guy
trudging through the Great Outdoors. Turns out he didn’t miss the
trudging at all, and for a while Daddy had to find some codgers his own
age to share the misery.
By this point, I had joined Pat and
Polk in being mostly naked at home. We still are, you know. We had so
much fun giving each other manicures, pedicures, facials; consulting on
clothes and beauty tips; asking Mommy about the things that all girls
and gurls have to know…
Polk and I spent most nights together.
He was much more into sex with me than Pat ever was. He also became the
prettiest of the three of us; I’m only a wee bit jealous, but I think
at the end of the day, I’m the one with the tiniest peepee, so that’s
some consolation.
Q. What was your father’s status in the family prior to his conviction?
Daddy had lost the reins of power after Polk joined the Sissy Club. None of his sons were buying into his dream of manhood.
Looking back, I guess Mommy’s world was also turned upside-down. She’d
let Daddy have his way in the home, and what a sham her brave,
brilliant, honorable older sons turned out to be! The eldest son was a
thief and a fence. The middle son was a cheat. Daddy would turn out to
be a much bigger sham than either Pat or Polk, but he’d already been
knocked off his pedestal. And what’s Jupiter without worshippers?
I don’t know what Mommy said to Daddy behind closed doors. For whatever
reason, he stopped making speeches at us and let his subscriptions
lapse. All three boys were joining in meal prep and having a blast;
Mommy supervised us while sipping her favorite cocktail, an
Old-Fashioned. Table talk at dinner also became much livelier,
especially because Daddy would excuse himself right after eating his
steak to go do something like carve a new stock for his shotgun.
Q. It seems that your father’s criminal conviction was anti-climactic.
No, I wouldn’t say that. When the cops showed up with the search
warrant, we were shocked. I thought it must have something to do with
Pat’s shoplifting. No, they ransacked Daddy’s office, and they weren’t
looking for stolen cuff links. They must have been happy with what they
found, because they handcuffed Daddy and hauled him away.
Mommy and I just looked on with our jaws dropped, but Pat and Polk were
in tears, totally crushed. I remember Pat running to the door: “Daddy,
say it ain’t so!” But so it was, and Daddy seemed to shrink as these
two huge cops shoved him into the police car.
Oh dear, I’m sorry. I really thought I’d gotten over this.
Q. Take your time.
I
already told you about the sentencing hearing, where Mommy saved Daddy
from going to prison. Mommy also saved what she could from the
wreckage. She had to sell our house, which had five bedrooms, a
three-car garage, and a swimming pool, in order to make good on the
money Daddy had embezzled.
For the same purpose, she
liquidated the gun collection with the rest of the sporting equipment
and even Daddy’s collection of pipes. The Acura, the Lexus, and the
Toyota SUV went the same way, netting a pile of cash and a 10-year-old
Corolla. We rented the first floor of a duplex, where we had three
small bedrooms. I shared one bedroom with Polk, Pat had a bedroom to
himself, and the old folks took the largest bedroom. The real hardship
was that we all shared a single bathroom, but Polk and I happily agreed
to shower together.
Daddy naturally lost his job at the bank,
and his criminal record left him with few employment options, all of
them blue collar. No more 9-to-5, either. He’d have to work the night
shift or get up early five days a week. He chose to get up early. He
became a sanitary engineer, better known as janitor, coincidentally at
his sons’ school.
Mommy needed a job now too, but she was
determined not to resume her career as secretary. She marched down to
the union hall and got into an apprenticeship program for her dream
job: forklift operator. She threw out her heels; her work clothes are
gumboots and dungarees.
Q. How did your father adjust to all these changes?
Daddy
was depressed, and for a while he barely spoke. Mommy stripped him
right away and immediately dressed him again. Daddy in the nude was
scary. His flesh was sagging, and he was hairy all over. Everywhere
except for his scalp, which he would cover as much as he could with the
hair he had left; but as the day wore on his comb-over split into
separate strands. Comical if it weren’t so pathetic. And if we had
tried to pluck his body, we would have been at it day and night.
Pat, Polk, and I told Mommy that Daddy wasn’t ready to be seen. She
agreed. Daddy would stay in clothes for three weeks while taking a
double-strength starter dose of Puericil/TR.
Daddy brightened
up, and not just because he got to stay dressed. He suddenly became a
non-stop talker, which was nice except that he had nothing interesting
to talk about. For example, he found the ins and outs of janitor work
fascinating. He made recommendations on cleaning products and explained
the subtleties of floor polishing. He also kept the radio on all the
time. He favored stations that played music like “You Light Up My
Life.” He tried to join us in the kitchen and volunteered to cook. That
was also a non-starter. Daddy’s idea of cooking was tuna hot
dish—cooking out of a can.
He was trying so hard. “I just want
to be one of the boys,” I remember him saying. “That’s all I ever
really wanted.” We felt sorry for him, but not enough to strike up a
conversation. He was just clueless.
He decided he wanted a
nickname. “Other boys have nicknames; why can’t I have a nickname?”
What nickname do you want? “Larry. I want to be called Larry. Doesn’t
that sound cool?” We agreed that it sounded cool.
At the
end of the three weeks came the Big Reveal. It was impressive, even
though we had already seen how rapidly he grew a full head of hair
(brunet). Plus, at two weeks, he had barely any whiskers left. At three
weeks, Larry himself reminded Mommy that it was time for him to join
the nudies.
That Saturday morning, Mommy called us all into
the kitchen. She took a scissors to Larry’s pajamas. First, she cut the
buttons off the pajama tops, then sliced the sleeves so that the pieces
slid to the floor. The fly of the pajama bottoms had two buttons; she
cut those off, reached into the fly, and exposed Larry’s peepee: “Come
out, come out, wherever you are.” Larry was beaming and giggly. Then
the scissors sliced through the waist band, and Mommy announced that
Larry wouldn’t be needing pajamas from now on. Larry was now one of the
boys.
The really gross fur on his back and shoulders had
vanished. He still had a little hair on his chest and sizable clumps in
his groin and armpits. On his arms and legs, there was nothing but fuzz.
It still looked like an awful lot of plucking, but Mommy had the
solution in the form of an electric tweezer thingie. She cleared the
hair from Larry’s arms and legs by way of showing us how the thingie
worked, then she attacked the few black hairs around his butt crack.
That part of the process seemed uncomfortable for Larry, and Mommy
immediately slathered on the Puericil cream between his buns. Mommy’s
finger sought out Larry’s prostate, and Larry got this beatific look
that by now was very familiar to us.
Mommy turned the
thingie over to Pat, and he had the job of plucking away every last
remnant of hair from Larry’s chest. “Good riddance,” said Pat, and
Larry actually thanked him. Pat handed the thingie to Polk. There did
seem to be a lot of long hairs remaining under Larry’s arms, so Mommy
first used the scissors to shorten those hairs and also Larry’s pubes.
After the trimming, there didn’t seem to be so much hair, and in fact
Polk had Larry’s armpits silky smooth in a couple minutes.
The
closet door in the master bedroom had a full-length mirror. Larry
rushed off to look at himself, and we chased after him. He raised his
arms over his head and admired those smooth pits. Something about a boy
having smooth pits makes him seem especially young and nude. Larry felt
it; we all did. We also noticed that Larry’s sagging flesh had become
taut. He must have lost a fair amount of weight during those three
weeks.
We were all excited now. Mommy put away the thingie and
gave me the tweezers; it seems I’d be de-pubing Larry the old-fashioned
way, which suited me fine. I started with his ball sac. Hairy balls are
definitely yucky. The hairs are wirey and coarse. Nothing worse. And
when you’re plucking, you want to stretch the skin tight, which isn’t
at all easy with the scrotum. Fortunately, I didn’t find many hairs,
and as I stretched the skin as gently as I could, they seemed to
yield—I didn’t even need to tweeze them. A very good sign, I thought.
Only the pubes were left. I’d become a very good plucker; boys at
school who weren’t on Puericil would often ask for my help in getting
themselves “cleaned up.” I got rid of the stragglers on Larry’s thighs,
leaving a nice tight pubic patch. This was it! Larry’s pubes
surrendered as easily as the hairs on his balls. Ta da!
We all
crowded around for our first good look. Was there a genetic reason why
all the boys were so little down there? I’d say so! “Wow, Larry, you
really put the P in peepee!” Either that or the double-strength starter
dose did quite a number on him. (Mommy whispered to me that she’d
actually been using triple-strength to hurry things along.)
Along with Larry’s tiny peepee, we noticed that his ball sac had
shriveled and the balls were pea-sized. Everything nicely in
proportion, according to Pat. Mommy now joined the boys in massaging
the Puericil cream into all the plucked areas. Larry purred like a kitten.
Q. Did your father’s personality change now that his body hair was gone?
No.
Larry was still 45 going on 15. The wrinkles were gone, but his face
looked fake. Like the face of a fading 50-something movie star who’d
had one facelift too many. After we finished the full-body massage, he
ran back to admire himself in the bedroom mirror. “Oh man,” he said,
“the chicks are gonna be all over me!!”
A few weeks
later, our school held its prom. Our school was unusual in that all
grades came to the prom, so they could make fun of each other. Mommy
and Larry attended as chaperones. Larry was excited; he planned his own
outfit. It was a tight polyester shirt covered by sparkly stuff and
peach-colored bell bottoms. “Pretty cool, huh? The chicks are gonna
love it.” Mommy took Larry aside:
“Larry, those are bell bottoms.”
“Yes, these are bell bottoms.”
“Larry, no one wears bell bottoms any more.”
“Oh. I guess that’s why they were marked down.”
“Larry, nobody has worn bell bottoms since Nixon was President.”
“Oh. Did Nixon wear bell bottoms?”
A few days later, Larry ran off with Mrs Hotchkiss, the history teacher. Mommy was happy to have her bedroom to herself.
We are a very stable family now. All three boys have steady dates. Pat
is seeing an Amazon named Margery. (The rest of us call her Large
Marge.) Polk has his Biff, from the football squad. And I’m going with
a FABULOUS femboi named Tal (or sometimes Tallulah; preferred pronoun:
Pronoun).
With Larry gone, our little place seemed roomier.
Our finances also improved. Did you know that fork-lift drivers make
really good money? Mommy runs a pretty loose ship, but she makes sure
that we eat right. Every morning, we get our pills and wash them down
with a delicious, nutritious Puericil milkshake! It’s the Breakfast of
Champions!
Q. Aside from the pleasure of having a bedroom to herself, how did your mother adjust to your father’s running off?
It
wasn't long before Mommy told us she was going to start dating. We
encouraged her, told her it was about time. Anyone we know? Could be,
she said.
Date night rolls around. We offer Mommy some tips.
Mommy thanks us, but no, she's not that old, she remembers how it's
done. She comes out from her bedroom for our inspection. She’s wearing
jeans and flannel shirt. Hair in a ponytail. Pat and Poke are
speechless. I tell her she's making a fashion statement, but is that
the statement she wants? "Trust me," she says.
Doorbell rings.
Mom's date is tall and stocky. Boots, leather pants, muscle T-shirt.
Hair slicked back in ducktails. Pat and Poke are speechless.
“Hey babe,” Mommy says.
“Hey Ms Bixbee,” I say, “You look fierce!”
Comment on Case Study No. 8:
As
we look forward to a near-future when a family puts ALL its menfolk on
Puericil, we derive encouragement and a warning from this case study.
Phil’s family faced extraordinary challenges and surmounted them, in
large part due to the therapeutic effects of Puericil/TR. Particularly
noteworthy is the emergence of Phil’s mother as a strong, competent
individual after suffering years of eclipse in a family setting
dominated by toxic masculinity.
The warm, loving, supportive
relationship among the three brothers is also striking. Their love even
expresses itself sexually, without hindering the three brothers’
pursuit of their sexually diverse tastes. In this respect, case study
no. 8 recalls observations in case study nos. 5 and 6.
With
Phil’s father, the results of the therapy are disappointing. His toxic
masculinity persists, despite the expected physical transformation. The
lesson we draw is that Puericil treatment must be accompanied by
appropriate counseling. The Puericil Disciplinary Program, as it
continues to be used in schools, includes such counseling, which needs
to be adapted to suit the needs of adults.
Phil’s father is
still receiving Puericil as a condition of his probation. We hope that
the administrators, or perhaps Mrs Hotchkiss, will recognize the man’s
obsession with “chicks” for what it is—a cry for help!