By NAMB
Copyright 2020 by NAMB all rights reserved
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Dear Ms. Masturbatrix,
Since the outbreak of the
pandemic, I’ve become the babysitter for our next-door neighbor’s
12-year-old son, Lyle. I have the ability to work from home and I have
worked out a schedule to home school Lyle and my 8-year-old daughter,
Hillary.
I have my office set up in my bedroom and the kids
are in the dining room on opposite ends of a large table. For the most
part it works out and I only have to take breaks every now and then to
make sure they are moving along in their assignments.
We all
take lunch together and I even schedule some time for them to get
physical exercise either on the playset in the yard or have them take a
walk around the neighborhood. I schedule this time for when I have my
afternoon meeting. It minimizes the noise and interruptions.
Hillary and Lyle seem to work and play together well in spite of the
differences in their ages and genders and get along more like a sister
and brother.
All was fine until last week when the weather
was bad. When this happens, I relegate them to the basement playroom
where they can be as noisy as they want and I won’t hear them.
On this particular day, my meeting wrapped up early and I decided to
join the kids for some quality time together. As I approached the
playroom, I could hear Hillary giggling and some panting and heavy
breathing on Lyle’s part. I wondered what kind of game they could be
playing, but my motherly instinct told me that I should approach
cautiously.
The first indication I had that something less
than innocent was going on was as I saw Lyle’s clothes, including his
underwear, in a heap on the couch. I moved closer so I could get a
better look still without being seen.
I had fears that Lyle
was somehow taking advantage of my daughter. Those fears were
unfounded. In fact, the reverse seemed to be true. What I saw was Lyle,
totally naked on his back on the coffee table with Hillary kneeling
between his legs.
She was totally dressed and was apparently
“playing nurse” with his penis. I remember my girlfriend and I doing
that with her cousin when we were little girls. He was only a little
boy at the time too. I was surprised that a 12-year-old boy like Lyle
would let a much younger girl do that to him.
My first
instinct was to interrupt their play, but I decided against it. I
decided to observe and see what was really going on. I looked as
Hillary poked and prodded his penis and testicles. I watched as he
became excited and started to become erect.
He was larger
than I expected. My basis for comparison was a 6-year-old and a 26-year
old. I didn’t get to see boys in between.
I watched my
daughter carefully. She did not seem to be under any duress. In fact
she seemed to be enjoying herself. Lyle also seemed to be content to
lay there submissively and let her play with him. Although my daughter
was taking the dominant role, it seemed very consensual on both parts.
She went on to manipulate his organ into hardness and then continued to play with it making it drip pre-cum.
Lyle opened his eyes, lifted his head and nodded at her. He said, “I’m
ready.” That must have been the cue Hillary was waiting for. She
wrapped her hand around the organ and started pumping it. Lyle
stiffened up, arched his back and grunted. Arcs of semen came flying
out of the tip of his penis. I had to cover my mouth so as not to gasp
and be discovered.
Hillary let out a squeak and said, “I made you do it! I made you do it!”
“Where did she learn to do that?” I wondered. I never saw a boy
masturbate and although I’ve felt them inside me, I’ve never seen an
ejaculation. Now my daughter showed me both.
I decided that
in spite of the sexual nature of the interaction, nothing dangerous was
going on here. I retreated quietly to let them continue their play. I
decided I’d talk with Hillary about it later.
-=o=-
I had the conversation with Hillary as she was helping me with dinner that evening.
“So how was school today?”
“It was OK?”
“Did you have any problems with your assignments?”
“No.”
“What did you and Lyle do for PT today?”
“Nothing, we just played a game.”
“Did this game involve either of you taking off your clothes?”
Silence.
“It’s OK, honey you can tell me.”
“You’re not mad at me are you, mommy?”
“Of course not dear. I just want to talk about that you and Lyle did.”
“Um, OK.”
“Tell me how it started.”
“I think it was last week. I wanted to know what a real boy looked like.”
“You have that boy doll I bought you.”
“Yes, and I like playing with him, but I wanted to know what a real -
real boy looked like, so I asked Lyle if he would show me.
So we went to the bathroom and he took it out and made pee while I watched.”
“You didn’t do anything to force him to show you his penis, did you?”
“No, I just asked. I always ask politely like you taught me and he just did it.”
“So you wanted to see it. It was your idea and Lyle was OK with it?”
“Yes, mommy. He likes it and so do I. He even asked me if I wanted to touch it, so I did. It felt funny and then it got big.
I asked him how he made it do that and he told me *I* made him do it. He said touching it makes it get hard.”
“What else did he tell you?”
“He said that girls can make boys get hard and did I want to learn how to do that. I said yes.”
“And then what happened?”
“He pulled his pants all the way down and I could see everything even
his balls. He’s much bigger than my boy-doll and his balls hang down
more.”
I blushed, “Well, boys do grow up, you know.”
Hillary giggled, “Anyway he showed me how to do a jerk off. He took his
hand and wrapped it around his – what did you call it?”
“Penis,” I responded, “and the balls are called testicles.” I decided
to take advantage of the situation and at least give my daughter the
correct terminology. I had no idea that home schooling would also
involve sex education.
“He moved his hand up and down and
his penis got even bigger. It finally got a big as it was going to get
and he kept doing it. Then he started acting funny. His body got all
jerky and he started making funny noises.
I thought he was
getting sick or something. Then he gave a big grunt and then this white
stuff squirted out of it and he made squirt after squirt. It wasn’t
like pee. It didn’t come out like pee. It didn’t look like pee.”
“It’s not pee, Hillary. It’s called sperm.” I wasn’t about to go into
what the purpose of it was yet. Hillary seemed to be satisfied with it
being something boys do just like a penis is just something boys have.
I went on, “When he squirts like that, it’s called an ejaculation.”
“I like it when he makes an ejaculation.
Anyway he asked me if I wanted to make him do it and I said yes. I got
to do it today. His penis felt funny. It got big but it also got hard.
Then it got really hard and he squirted. The stuff that came out was so
hot.
It was fun. I liked doing it. Lyle says he likes it too.”
I had one final question. “Did you take your clothes off in front of
Lyle and did he touch you anywhere you clothes normally cover?”
“No mommy.”
-=o=-
So Ms. Masturbatrix, what do I do? My daughter just seems to be curious
and Lyle is cooperative. Do I forbid them to do it? Should I talk to
Lyle? Should I tell Lyle’s parents?
Confused in Cincinnati
-=o=-
Dear Confused, you’ve done well so far. Discovering Hillary and Lyle
and not interrupting took great courage. You did the right thing to
watch to make sure that neither of them was harming the other. It’s
simple schoolgirl curiosity on your daughter’s part. Lyle is also
experimenting with his sexuality as well.
Freud was not all
wrong when he wrote about penis envy with girls Hillary’s age. It’s
normal but it’s more exploration than envy. The main thing girls have
to learn is that having a penis is normal for a boy and that it is no
different than any other part of his body. It does not give him any
special powers.
Your daughter has this concept well in hand,
if you pardon the pun. She’s attained feminine power that some women
never get. She is comfortable with penises and is willing to control
them. You did well to talk with her about it the way you did rather
than condemn and lecture.
Your next step should be to talk
with Lyle to assure that he is not pressuring Hillary into this nor is
she pressuring him. Reassure him that there is nothing wrong with
submitting to your daughter’s play.
Download our pamphlet,
“Talking About CFNM With Your Child.” It’s free and it has tips on how
to bring up subjects like your daughter’s first penis, erections and
male masturbation. It also has advice on talking with boys and their
submissive role in the CFNM process.
Do talk with Lyle’s
parents. We also have a free pamphlet specifically for that too,
“Playing Nurse is Normal. What Every Adult Should Know.”
Just present the facts: you found them playing, neither of them were
being coerced or tricked into it, both enjoy it. The pamphlet will help
you explain that this is natural and healthy for children to do.
If Lyle’s parents have objections, there isn’t much you can do. Explain
to your daughter that although there is nothing wrong and she can
remain friends with Lyle that his parents do not want the two of them
playing together like that anymore.
If they are cooperative,
then by all means not only allow them to continue to play but encourage
it. However there are some rules.
The first rule is
confidentiality. Explain to both of them that this is a private thing
and that they can do it discretely. It is up to you to set the limits:
if you think it is OK for Lyle to be naked the whole time while in the
presence of your daughter, that’s up to you. On the other hand, if you
want to restrict their play time, that’s your call as well.
Also, impress upon them the need for secrecy. They are not to tell
others about their experiences. Hillary, in particular, will be eager
to share the experiences she has with Lyle with her friends. Again, the
pamphlet will help get the other girls’ mothers on board.
Here at Masturbatrix Magazine we encourage girls to seek out peers and
mentors. To assist with this effort and as part of your subscription
cost, you can log onto our web site and check out our CFNM Directory.
Enter in your Zip Code and you will get a list of girls and boys in
your area whose parents already approve of the practice. I recommend
you register Hillary and Lyle.
Then there is a matter of
safety. As your daughter reads our magazine, she will start getting
ideas of her own for playing with Lyle and his penis. Read along with
her and discuss these ideas with her to make sure she understands what
she is doing and can do it safely.
Above all, impress upon
both of them that NO means NO. If either of them doesn’t’ want to do
something or wants to stop doing something then play must stop.
It is interesting that you mentioned sex education. It should be part
of home schooling. Use the CFNM Directory. There are probably girls in
your neighborhood who need the education you can provide with Lyle’s
cooperation. Having Hillary’s cooperation also helps. The other girls
will see that the power to do this comes from being a girl and not
something that is set up by the adults. It empowers a girl to see one
of her peers in control of a boy.
I am sure the girls’ mothers will appreciate it especially if their daughters don’t have access to suitable male relatives.
Give your daughter a big hug for us. Hillary is off to a get start; she
has a great future with female supremacy in front of her. Obviously,
she has a great role model; keep encouraging her.
Ms. Masturbatrix